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So I was at a club with a group of friends including a guy friend of mine that I was close too (but we never ever dated or slept together). So everyone spread out and did their own thing and this tall cute Asian guy approaches me saying I'm beautiful and asks me if I'm Rusisan. He was also feeling the urge to give me a kiss but I pased so we exchanged numbers and just hugged. We stayed in touch but I was busy with business meetings and working at a hair salon. So we texted each other but then he told me I took way too long then he blocks me off facebook and instagram and we don't talk or see eac other till a year and a half later by chance. Then he adds me back to facebook and we re-connect and he inboxes me to meet up.
He was pretty friendly and nice and we had a good date and we had chemistry and couldn't get off of each other. He trusted me enough to bring me back to his place where we had sex, but after our date was done he started teling me to go back to my guy friend and he's better looking than him and he had unfriended him from Facebook as well - that jealous he got. He was also advising me to continue my career wit hairstyling and wished me all the best and gave me advice.
He blocks me after I leave his place off of all social media. The sex was great and we got along so why did he cut me off? And why was he so jealous of my guy friend if he only wanted to have sex with me? And what did he mean when he said it wasn't a good idea to see me again?

I moved up to my boyfriend in New York after we got back together in June this year. Things were going on okay till I started to feel uncomfortable being sexual around him. He started to make me feel bad because I didn't want to and some nights I would wake up to him trying to spread my legs or keep asking me to have sex with him. Here and there I would let him even though I didn't want to. A few times I try to express myself to him and he would cut me off and leave, which led me to have a few anxiety attacks.
On the 11th of September @3 in the morning I made a little joke, "It's early in the morning I'll use my toy tonight you can go back to sleep" and thought he would kid around with me Instead I get this sharp pain on my thigh. Took me a minute to realize he slapped me after he raised his voice at me. I asked him why he hit me and his response was "I didn't hit you I was trying to tap your butt, but missed." Since that night I couldn't sleep, I didn't feel loved or want to be there anymore. I thought he changed after high school.
In our Senior year late January of 2014 he raped me, but said he was just "playing around and didn't mean to do it." This incident led me to depression and bad habits.
So after he hit me (present) I started to get depressed again, having anxiety, and had nobody to talk to. Since I got there I was mostly down in the basement for the two months I stayed there with nothing to do beside watch youtube videos. I made a mistake in sending a guy photos of me (bad habit), yes I do know it's a form of cheating I made a mistake :(. Soon he found out and told his family and friend what I did and made and a lie; for 3 days I was getting mistreated without knowing why until the day I left. Ever since then his whole family been sending me messages. I feel hurt because they never gave me a chance to speak and when I finally said something they call me a cheater, a scum, slut, liar. While he is the Angel and hero in everybody's eyes. What should I do?