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Hey I don’t know if anyone can help but I’ve been dating this guy now for 4 months (we meet on a dating sight about a year ago now, I know some of you won’t approve of this but don’t judge me on it) and I’ve fallen in love with this guy, somehow. However there are a number of problems with him and I don’t know what to do about them.

1. He has constantly lied to me. He says he’s telling me the truth now but it gets to the point where you wonder what’s the truth and what isn’t

2. We only seem to talk when I make the effort or ask him to come online. He never rings me or texts me

3. I’ve told him I love him, he has said love you 2 or 3 times but most of the time he say me 2 or love ya. I don’t know what to do, I love him and I really hope he does have some feelings for me but I don’t know.

4. He also seems to be the sort of guy who knows all the right things to say to keep someone happy and keep him out of trouble.

5. I’ve seen his social networking sights and he hasn’t been on them in ages or since we’ve been dating but from what I can see there has been times when he’s been dating more than one girl at once on different sights. He says he’s changed but has he, how can I tell. He also has three different names on each sight, I confronted him about it but he acted confused and just didn’t answer apart from you know who I am babe I told you.

6. We’ve tried to meet but every time we try he comes up with some excuse I’m ill, my car window screen got smashed in. Every time I forgive him and its hard to have ago at him even though I can tell there lies, he’s says there not and that I should trust him but its as if he knows if he tells me something I can’t have ago at him because how will I know if it’s a lie or not.

I don’t know why I don’t have the courage to confront him, kick him into shape or get rid of him. I also don’t know why I’m in love with him but I need your help! He’s so kind and considerate when we talk and can be one of the loveliest guys but then something will happen which just makes me wonder what the hell I’m doing. What should I do? If you can help me please do.