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me and this guy were kinda seeing each other. i thought he liked me but he broke it off with me. the reason why he did it was pretty understandable but still if he really wanted to be with me he could of tried harder. not saying its not my fault because its most likely is but right now i really don't know what to think so i thought id ask you guys. we weren't official or anything but we were making our way there. at first i wasn't that into him so i was being my usually outgoing crazy self and he loved my personality and we had a great time. but (uh oh) i started getting feelings for him & when i star getting feelings i freak out because i start thinking there's more to lose now. so i completely shut down. ill barely talk and i won't initiate anything. id only kiss him if he kissed me and stuff like that. and i wouldn't do anything sexual with him or for him. hed have to text me first and hed always have to ask me to hang out even though i did once but then i kinda uninvited him cuz i told him ''ya but you probley wouldn't wanna come not your scene''. i was just so in to wanting to impress him that i did the opposite of that & when he broke it off he basically said it was getting to awkward between us and it didn't seem like i liked him and i wasn't who he thought i was.

so i get it a lot of it could be my fault but there is things that he did wrong too. like when we hung out he would be all over me and maybe i wouldn't have felt so intimated if he wasn't, he only texted me like 3 time a week, he never invited me out with him and his friends well he did one time but then he broke up with me before we could do it. he never really talked about personal things. he was more outgoing in person but on text i tried to see where he wanted this to go but when i tried he changed the subject kinda. also it seemed like he really wanted to have sex with me so i don't know if that was his only motive.

i think i fixed my issues. i still really like him but is he worth it?

Yesterday my guy friend of three years and I had a weird emotional moment. We see each other before/after school and we share a small class. He always finds me at diff times all day just to say hi. Before school I talked to him about how he acts in our class. I think he shows off for me and it's annoying the other people who asked me to talk to him since, even though we're not official, it feels like we are and at the same time it feels/felt like we were just on the brink of kissing and being a real couple. We just do the bear hug and flirty touch thing now... or used to.

We were talking in a doorway and I told him to cool it a little with the crazy flirting, even though I love it, bc it was making the other people uncomfortable. We always hold burning eye contact when we talk and he started to cry and said if I wanted him to he would drop the class. He said his allergies and contacts make his eyes water but his voice was shaky, too, so I'm calling bs. He threatens to quit things a lot and tends to get scared when things seem tough. He's insecure but likes to show off but says he hates attention.

I asked why he couldn't just be normal and told him how much I want him to stay in class. He said he can't understand why I'm so nice to him and keep giving him chances when everyone else gives up on him. I said I couldn't believe he didn't know how I felt about him, We used to say we loved each other a lot, or I'd joke and say I hated him and he'd say, no you don't, you love me, or I'd say, do this and I'll love you forever and he'd say, you already do.

Then I wiped a tear from his cheek and he warned me that he hadn't shaved and it would feel rough. Then we had a really tight squeeze hug and I felt like we were about to pull back for a kiss but I don't want our first kiss to be in school,

Then he didn't come to our class, said nothing, just looked at me later when I asked him why and blew me off after school.
What's going on with him?