I've been seeing the same guy on and off for a few months. He knows that I dont want to have sex with him unless I'm in a committed relationship with him. I've been very up front about it. He said he was okay with it and wasn't going to try anything when we hung out. I went to his house and we cuddled and started making out in his bed. I blue-balled him and I felt really awful but im waiting for him to make things official with me, and he made it seem like he was going to do it soon, so I didn't want to give it up until he officially made the commitment. He told me all night how much he likes and respects me and said that me holding off on sex didn't bother him, but the next morning he acted super bitter and cold towards me and hasn't talked to me since. What do I do? I've been wanting him for months but he's so on and off, im scared that if I hook up with him he will ignore me the next day, he can be genuine but he also plays games. Im head over heels for this guy to the point where I can't even sleep at night. I just want to know whats going on in his head.
I blue-balled him by accident and now he's ignoring me?
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