Dang girl, that really sucks he turned you down like that! But don't take it too personally - sounds like it's really more about him than you.
As far as what he meant, a couple thoughts:
- He could really not be over an ex or stuff from his past and just not ready to date yet. Guys do deal with emotions too.
- Or there could be something about you specifically he wasn't feeling - but that's his loss! Don't let it get to you.
- Have you met him before? Some dudes aren't comfortable meeting up without more chat first too.
Do men regret it sometimes? For sure - we're only human. Maybe after some time passes he'll realize what a catch you were. But honestly sis, if he's not feelin' it now you deserve way better!
I'd say don't lose hope, just keep putting yourself out there. His rejection says nothing about you - you're a queen and I'm sure the right guy is waitin' who will be pumped to take you out. Keep your head high girl!
He's on a dating site to date so by saying what he did and the way he said it means that he doesn't want to date you. He's trying to be nice because he thinks you're nice and he likes talking to you but you're not the one for him. Basically, you're in the friend zone. Guys don't typically regret putting women in the friend zone
If he wasn’t ready, he wasn’t going to be on that app. He doesn’t like you as much as you like him
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Just tell him" you just lost the chance of getting the best blowjob of your life" and block him after that immediately.
He didn't like you so find someone else
