Girls, is it needy if a guy ask to meet up very early in a dating app?

[Anonymous]

So here are the messages.. i'm not sure if this is coming of needy or its some kind of turn off'.. I know i'm probably overthinking things.. but i appreciate your help.. apps are not great for me

Comment on her pic: 'awww.. shame your so far away😭'

her - 'why is it a shame! could still talk no? 😊'

me - 'i guess we can... i don't know if i can long distance 😂😂😂. '

me- 'Wow your now in London 😯.. how long for? if it short.. let me know if you wanna meet up? will see if we can fit something in'

[_Maya_]

If that is your first conversation with her then yeah. She obviously wanted to talk and suggested that and you just went right in for the kill. I wouldn't meet up with someone without talking to them for a while. You have to look at it from a safety perspective too. If that were me I have no clue if you are acting a certain way just to get me to meet you. You could be totally different irl. If I talk to you for a while I will be able to establish the type of person you are. Fakers can't fake forever is my point.

[Asker]

That makes sense.. Thanks.. What's the best way to approach it now.. She hasn't messaged.. Should I leave in a message again?

[_Maya_]

You could try sure. Maybe just start over sorta and try and get to know her a bit. Work into that meetup a little slower. Only thing I see as a problem is that she doesen't seem to be super jazzed about a LDR.

[Asker]

Thanks Maya. Much appreciated. All the best in life if we never speak again 😎😎

[_Maya_]

You're welcome and same to you! Take care and good luck to ya.