She has been in a relationship before with a married man and it didn't work out, he went back to his wife.
She use to work with me but we only hooked up after she left ( her leaving do ). Apparently she had fancied me for about 6 months but thought that I had never noticed her - well I had , just that I don't go there at work...
She says she doesn't want to get hurt again and appears to be assessing me , wanting to know what I am thinking, never puts any pressure on me. I am very independent, non-needy and busy and unlikely to get married again or let anyone move in with me ...
I never ask her about what she is up to when not with me - not really interested as long as she is happy and there when I want her... I like her, but am still trying to figure her out.. It's a bit like playing chess
She is 30 and I am 47 -
She knows I get interest from other girls and before we hooked up she thought I was unattainable...
I think she is quite experienced and has some game, she always has guys after her but is basically a good girl. But since she met me she gets incredible sex - I don't think she has had so many orgasms before in one hour ( 4)
But why does she always wait for me to initiate texts?
Occasionally she suggests she is missing me and wants to meet , but when I try and arrange a time she is busy or changes the time last minute. I always have a back up plan. I don't like email , chat or text - I prefer to do face to face flirting
What do you folks think is going on?
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