Help please! Why does this girl wait to respond to my texts in person?

[Anonymous]

I like this girl and we talk every single day, but only for about 20 minutes. She gave me her number but it seems like she likes to talk/respond to my texts in person. I should also mention our schedules are polar opposite so when im awake, she is sleeping. She always starts the convo's in person and also waits for me if i come late some days. Even when i try to ignore her, she wants to talk to me.

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Any other opinions?

[Guy13]

It is clear to me that this woman has her Junk together. Whomever grabs her grabs a keeper. She finds texting a menace to fundamental relationship formation and she is quite right. Much that is said in texting is said not. She's going to make a great CIA operative or lawyer or detective, or scientist.

You put it in words and she's going to and hear all your nonverbal cues when she responds. She's is checking you out SO if you like her then never lie to her. To be honest, I could love her and she kind of scares me too... She;ll figure out shenanigans. This is the kind of woman if you like then you should be frightened of losing and keep yourself righteous in all things.

[Asker]

I appreciate the response

[Guy13]

Certainly man-good luck with it all.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she’s not really into texting, which to me is a good thing. I feel like unless you’re in an LDR situation then texting should be absolutely minimal and just for making a plan and checking in.

[Asker]

thanks for the responce! I go to her workplace everyday. I only get to see her for 10-15 minutes. But i did notice sometimes when i come late she waits for me or keeps looking through the window. I think to myself if she doesn't text me back maybe she doesn't like me, but when we're only us two, she talks my ear off lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm, have you thought to ask her on a date maybe?

[Shiningtempest]

That's a total red flag to me. I see it as a red flag because it means she has limited option (s) to keep in touch with her "boyfriend".

[Opinion Owner]

@shiningtempest limited options to keep in touch with her boyfriend? What’s that even mean?

[Shiningtempest]

It means she has no options to talk to her boyfriend in case face-to-face conversation doesn't work.

[Nikki1989]

Texting is one big fail. Talk to her face to face.

[Shiningtempest]

@nikki1989 It would depend on each person's personality if they prefer talking to other people face-to-face.

[Asker]

Thanks for replying, it seems like face to face talking is best

[ShySocialButterfly]

Ask her out on a date!💕

[Asker]

Just a little nervous about doing that but I think it's coming to that point

[circ12]

some people are not that big on texting