Anyways, the next day she invites me to a NYE party with all of her closest friends. We met at her place again and she drove us to her friends house for dinner. I met all of her closest friends, guys and girls. We all got along really well! Her friends were very inviting and none of them were stand-offish. We went to the dance and had a great time. On the way to the dance and back from the dance we talked a lot. Communication between us has never been awkward. Except when she was telling me about all her loser ex-boyfriends. None of them had any respect for her. All the alpha male strong types. Some even forced their way onto her... I am a pretty fit guy but I'm not one of those alpha males that has no consideration, the type all women are instantly attracted too... Anyways I am trying to figure out why she won't text me back. She has been to busy for me to call so I text every once and a while. Before the date she would always text back immediately. I have known her for at least a year and a half. She has never delayed in responding to me. I can't figure out what I did wrong... I am the nice guy, I am respectful and I open doors, pull out chairs, pay for the whole night. Ect..
Anyways we have plans on Sunday to go to her church and I am not sure what to do. I want to build a friendship with her but I feel she is putting up walls. I have also shown her that I want to learn about her religion and that I want to convert to the LDS. Help, is she interested in me even a little?
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What you should be doing is displaying alpha male characteristics. First off you shouldn't change your self and your beliefs over one girl. She is definitly interested in you if you got as far as you did. The thing is there could be a lot of reasons why she didn't text you back like something wrong with the phone or she saw it but she was too busy at the time. And these reasons show that is has nothing to do with liking you. You shouldnt stress over what's going on. If she does like you and is interested in you she will text you but don't worry too much over a simple text. All the time you spent with her goes past talking through a text so don't stress over one. If it turns out that she never does end up contacting you then you should just move on and know that you're not gonna keep yourself down over a girl. Being an alpha male doesn't mean that you have no consideration. It just means that you stand strong by your beliefs and you know that there's a lot of things and women out there waiting for you. And it also means that you are someone who doesn't take things too seriously and you don't let it faze you. If you act this way you'll find that you will be very worry free. So what you should do is just wait and see if this girl does contact you back. If not then it's her loss right?
Thanks for the excellant advice. I normally express myself like you say that alpha males do but I am going through the ringer with this girl. You are right though, there are millions of other women out there. Chances are I could find another decent woman. I do not like to change for other people but religeously, I already have been pulled to the LDS church. I don't want her to think I am changing for her. Maybe it would help if I go to a different church nearby? Seriously though, great advice.
Yea no problem. It would help you even more if you didn't worry too much about what she thinks when you are making your own lifestyle choices. If you want to convert, then don't worry about whether or not she will think that you are changing for her. You are changing for you and that's not her choice so don't pay mind to it. Also when she said she's independent and busy it just means she's got a lot going on for her. The longer you wait you'll find that she'll come back to you since uve goten so far