So i have been dating this girl for 2 months now but we have actually known each other for over 3 years. We actually met for the first time this year. We met 3 times already. But recently i have been busy with my thesis and she has been hinting me to meet up again saying she miss me for the first time but unfortunately i told her i'm really busy with my work and i won't be able to meet her not until am done with submitting my work after a month. After that she's not responding to my texts nothing which is very odd when she usually always keep in touch. What's going on? I don't get it why she's acting like this when it's actually am busy and i don't know how to deal with that
Why she is not talking to me or responding to my text message after I told her I can't meet her?
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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She was hurt that you couldn’t meet and told her that you were busy for a whole month. While it is clear from your post that you do care how she feels, people usually tell others they are busy if they don’t feel like hanging out with them anymore. It is difficult for her to interpret it otherwise because a month is a long time to go without meeting. If somebody told me that I would also assume they don’t wanna engage with me for a while or that they are even considering to break up. People drift apart very easily nowadays so you have to make it clear you still really like her and that you promise to make up for it later on. Hope it gets well between you too!
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Anonymous
(18-24)
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I think she was feeling lonely and needed your presence very badly and now she is has either moved on or dating someone else
