Why he’s not talking to me?

[Anonymous]

I found out a guy I liked is married to someone else. He sent me a photo of him wearing a black tie with a white tuxedo. He said you should see things in black and white. What could he mean by this? He said that he’s not leaving his wife. I asked could we be friends but he said that I should see things in black and white.

I texted him and he didn’t respond. He said I need to see things in black and white. What is he meaning by this? I haven’t heard from him since I texted him

[Anonymous]

Black and white - plain and simple. He’s married, and can’t have new female friends, and it’s hard for men and women to be strictly platonic friends anyway, that’s universally known. I am sure you’d want the same respect within your relationship or marriage. You need to just back off, there’s no chance for you and I’m sure you’d rather not be a homewrecker.

[Flower7]

He means that he’s staying with his wife and is no longer interested in communicating with you or getting to know you.

[In_Trance]

he's married.

end of story

[Asker]

What does “see things in black and white means”

[Anonymous]

Its another way of saying face the truth.

[Asker]

He just sent me a photo of him wearing a white shirt with a black tie. I asked is this the photo from his wedding he said no. He said it’s time to see things in black and white. So he’s telling me to face the truth?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I think so.