I met a guy on bumble. We started talking. Really hit it off. Turns out we work for the same company, different titles but have to closely interact with one another. So he deleted his bumble without us exchanging information. I was sad but I let it go.
Then we matched on tinder like a month later. He said he didn't delete me, he just deleted the app. So I was like it's fine. We continued talking. Hit it off. Discuss work and personal goals, talked life, talked about our future.
Well out of nowhere he got cold and stopped talking to me as much, then went silent. I sent him a message like oh okay, I get it. You won't be hearing from me again. It's sad because we were about to meet for the first time in person. We had a good mental connection and were very attracted to one another physically.
So to say the least, I'm very sad. The worst part is I have to speak to him at work and interact with him. It's torture. Today his voice sounded nervous when we spoke. He had to come to my work location for some paperwork.
Why do you guys think he just stopped responding? He told me he wasn't ignoring me and that he had a lot going on but I just didn't believe him tbh. How can I get him back? We don't really have bad blood.
Then we matched on tinder like a month later. He said he didn't delete me, he just deleted the app. So I was like it's fine. We continued talking. Hit it off. Discuss work and personal goals, talked life, talked about our future.
Well out of nowhere he got cold and stopped talking to me as much, then went silent. I sent him a message like oh okay, I get it. You won't be hearing from me again. It's sad because we were about to meet for the first time in person. We had a good mental connection and were very attracted to one another physically.
So to say the least, I'm very sad. The worst part is I have to speak to him at work and interact with him. It's torture. Today his voice sounded nervous when we spoke. He had to come to my work location for some paperwork.
Why do you guys think he just stopped responding? He told me he wasn't ignoring me and that he had a lot going on but I just didn't believe him tbh. How can I get him back? We don't really have bad blood.
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Should I try to reach out to him again or just move on? I really miss talking to him and hate how abrupt it was
