Why do men stop talking to you for no reason?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy on bumble. We started talking. Really hit it off. Turns out we work for the same company, different titles but have to closely interact with one another. So he deleted his bumble without us exchanging information. I was sad but I let it go.
Then we matched on tinder like a month later. He said he didn't delete me, he just deleted the app. So I was like it's fine. We continued talking. Hit it off. Discuss work and personal goals, talked life, talked about our future.

Well out of nowhere he got cold and stopped talking to me as much, then went silent. I sent him a message like oh okay, I get it. You won't be hearing from me again. It's sad because we were about to meet for the first time in person. We had a good mental connection and were very attracted to one another physically.

So to say the least, I'm very sad. The worst part is I have to speak to him at work and interact with him. It's torture. Today his voice sounded nervous when we spoke. He had to come to my work location for some paperwork.

Why do you guys think he just stopped responding? He told me he wasn't ignoring me and that he had a lot going on but I just didn't believe him tbh. How can I get him back? We don't really have bad blood.

Updates

+1 y

Should I try to reach out to him again or just move on? I really miss talking to him and hate how abrupt it was

[horatiohornblower]

Maybe he decided it's best not to dip his pen in the company ink.

[horatiohornblower]

To your update: No, don't message him again. When you see him around. Smile and say hi. If he then talks with you. You can give out your little flirty signals.

Otherwise, nothing good comes from pressing a dating issue with a coworker.

[Asker]

You're right. He said he would never say anything and neither would I. I haven't done anything wrong to him other than get bitchy and he never told me to stop and don't talk to him. He claimed he wasn't ignoring me and he's been busy.

[Asker]

It's really hard hearing his voice and pretending I don't care. I miss him a lot. I wanted him a lot.

[horatiohornblower]

Well, if he reaches out again with the messaging stuff. Just tell him the calling and texting won't work. That he needs to take you out to dinner. So, you can spend some one on one time together.

[TallAnon]

It's the small things that can make you dislike someone.

[Anonymous]

That usually happens to me but I never dated anybody from work

[Asker]

Yeah. I don't have to see him physically but I do talk to him. It'd sad because I want him so much.

[Opinion Owner]

I know the feeling because I was hitting it off with this one woman and then I don’t know what happened but it’s only been a full day so hopefully she will get back to me, well if that’s normal for them to skip a day

[Opinion Owner]

It’s weird because I’ve been on bumble also and women do the same thing to me

[In_Trance]

There's always a reason