Are these LOCAL guys, or guys you are meeting on the Internet? Long-distance relationships almost never work and should be considered a waste of everyone's time. in my opinion, you shouldn't date (or be "talking to") guys who live any more than 20 minutes away from you, because if they live any further away, they won't be able to see you often enough. Most people, and guys especially, NEED to see you in person or they will lose interest in you over time. Our brains have a "grieving mechanism" - what allows you to "let go" of someone who dies or moves away or otherwise leaves your life - and this gets activated if you are apart for more than about 90 days (on average). At around that point, your brain starts to disconnect from that person, and it's much harder for them to maintain the energy necessary to keep a relationship alive.
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We hate small talk and we have shite to do. If he's coming back a while later he at least wants to share his life stories with you. Are we talking "come back" after a week or after 6 months?
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Sounds to me like you are meeting guys that just want one thing from you and the rest of the girls they meet.
They don't want a relationship with anyone and aren't willing to put the effort in to get to know someone. Their loss.
Don't settle for idiots that don't stick around to get to know you better.
Men are busy with their responsibilities.
Moreover, men just want fast sex.Seems like u make relationships with retards that don't respect u
because most likely they are bored but then later they get horny and remember you have a vagina.
Because we have to go and masturbate for a while... lol
Because they don’t want to form an emotional connection and relationship with you. So they stop talking and focus on someone else
Because they are desperate
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