What's the reaction of women who play hard when men don't chase as expected?

[Anonymous]

Lmao

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Gag selects this as featured? You got to be kidding

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+1 y

How do you expect someone to chase behind you when you treat them bad and ignore them? Sorry you are not so special as you think. If you are interested reciprocate , you are not entitled to be treated special unless you don't do so in return

[jennifer_bloom]

I would never date a guy who mocks me and talks bad about me by suggesting I'm a loser who plays games.

I expect the same mutual respect for your boyfriend or girlfriend that you would offer a priest or king.

My grandma was married until her husband's death 30 years into the marriage and they only argued once in their entire marriage.

The argument was about some people who became homeless during an earth quake and needed somewhere to sleep, my grandma wanted to save their lives but my grandpa was worried the strangers would take food away from their kids so that was their only argument during their entire 30 marriage.

[MadhuriDixit]

I never understood those women
You are not some rare specimen, you're gonna end up old and single if you decide to play stupid games
If you're interested reciprocate it

[Unit1]

This!

[CriticalCatDad]

Chasing women isn’t worth it. They’re no prize. How are women considered a prize when men can barely put up with a woman? No, if anything women should be chasing men. Women want a man who can keep her safe? She should be seeking that herself instead of waiting around for it to come after her. sorry, but women aren’t special.

[caitycat21]

This is the type of thinking that’ll leave you single and miserable.

If you’re genuinely interested in a woman why wouldn’t you want to put any effort? That makes no sense

[CriticalCatDad]

Single, yes. Miserable, absolutely not. I’ve been single for 9 years and I haven’t been happier. Relationships fucking suck. Why would anyone want someone else telling them how to live their life?

[caitycat21]

Well it just seems like you have had a bad experience in relationships but you shouldn’t let a few bad experiences lead to you generalizing all women.

[CriticalCatDad]

3 women have cheated on me. I know not all women cheat. Then I was falsely accused. I know not all women falsely accuse. Then I was used for $1,000 worth of shopping. I’m sure not all women would do that either. But damn is that a lot of different bullshit to go through to attempt to find a bitch to hope doesn’t make me miserable as fuck

[DarkLegacy]

@caitycat21 Women are not worth the aggro

[DarkLegacy]

@criticalcatdad Exactly, i have seen it in all modern relationships, the woman controlling the guy and then shitting on them.

[Asker]

@caitycat21 Men should not be the only one to put in effort.. both should equally put in effort
That's what women who play to get hard is about.. they want the man to chase and put in everything to get her because she thinks she is the Queen of the world

[patois]

It's hilarious that she is telling you that you must of just had "a bad experience" when you stated women "tell you how to live your life" right after she told you how to live your life with the statement "This is the type of thinking that’ll leave you single and miserable." Classic...

[CriticalCatDad]

Right? 🤣, @patois

[caitycat21]

@Asker ok that makes sense, I was mostly talking about the beginning of the relationship. If you’re interested in someone show that interest and if it’s reciprocated maybe it’ll grow into something more but I don’t understand the sentiment of critical dad

[Chazmatazz269]

More often than not, “good riddance”. People who play those kinds of games often think much too highly of themselves. They really think that men who won’t abide their nonsense are unworthy.

[Jacobbbb]

Realest thing I've heard on this app. You nailed it.

[DarkLegacy]

They get frustrated by it and bitter, but that is not a bad thing as they need to learn they can't play with men's feelings and treat us how they like. The important thing is to not let women play you and use you, and keep in control of things.

[HappyWoman34]

The women realise that the men aren’t into them, otherwise they’d be chasing them. Then they move onto someone more attentive.

[Asker]

You need to be attentive in return too, else the person you are interested in would probably leave and move on

[HappyWoman34]

Agreed. Up to a point. But if the guy makes no effort and gets bored or scared, to me that would indicate a lack of interest. Say if a guy seems warm, you’re both talking, then he asks you out on a date, but you’ve got the flu, so you reschedule for the following weekend. Then you ask him a question about where he works and you never hear from him again…I mean wtf is that?

[Asker]

Oh that sort of people are a waste of time , good riddance I would say

[HappyWoman34]

I’d agree 😊

[patois]

First they get mad. Then they try to ruin you. Then they stalk you out of desperation and make a fool out of themselves. Then everyone laughs at them. Then they move away to start a new life in a new city.

[Xia1994]

Usually they’ll move on to another guy who will chase. There’s tons of men in the world what one guy won’t do another will 💯.

[Asker]

No decent man will chase you if you play hard , you will only get simps

[Xia1994]

Relationships are all about reciprocation if he simps I’m going to reciprocate.

[Asker]

So you want a man who has no self respect?

[Asker]

I think we just have a mins-understanding, showing interest in you and acting sweet and lovely to you is not "Simping" .. that's just being a "Good man"

[Xia1994]

Never said that dear, what I mean is I want a man who’s going to pursue me and I’m not going to make myself toooo easily available for a man I have a life? I can’t be available 24/7 that’s one of the points I mean by hard to get not being available 24/7 we both have lives outside the relationship. So in the initial stages of dating he needs to pursue me and show interest and he needs to have self respect I keep preaching about self respect even on gag. I don’t reject a guy and expect him to chase me that’s not how I define hard to get. There’s also other points I use to define hard to get but I’m not going to give my pointers away that easily.

[Xia1994]

And*

[Asker]

Simp would mean he would pursue you even if you spit on his face

[Asker]

Yes good men will treat you special if you treat them well too.. by playing hard to get I meant women who reject and show no interest in a guy and expect him to keep treating her like a queen and chase her

[ProbablyClueless]

Usually, the reaction is general frustration and comments about how the guy is chicken shit and needs to man up.

[DextroShade]

They are usually disappointed that a man doesn't want to risk being labeled a predator because he didn't stop at the first rejection just to chase her stupid, difficult ass.

[Nikki1989]

Ha!

You have obviously had very little experience with women, let alone relationships, but thanks for the laugh.

[Asker]

You're lesbian so you don't have no experience with straight relationships

[Unit1]

something toxic like "he isn't man enough" or whatever bullshit. They don't deserve good boyfriends.

[Twalli]

Thry don't understand why the men seem to lose interest

[FuqUFggt]

Who cares what a bitch thinks? I sure as fuck don't.

[caitycat21]

What is considered “playing too hard to get” ?

[Serkee]

Expecting a guy to stay interested in you after you reject them.

[Xia1994]

@Serkee oh I didn’t define it like that I define it as when you don’t make yourself toooo easily available to a man you’re into especially in the initial phases of dating.

[Billlewis]

Nothing, in my humble opinion. I recently started following you, and I'd be honored if you'd like to follow or message me. Thank you very much.

[Asker]

@Billlewis STFU Bill

[WhitneySnow]

Probably frustrated

[OddBeMe]

The current dating climate.