Dating apps give women such a huge array of guys to choose from that it's turned them all narcissistic. If you're not incredibly attractive. You ain't got a shot.
I get likes and matches with girls no problem, so they are attracted to me, but it's the conversation part which is the hard part. Girls either flat out ignore my messages, I get the odd response or I'm asked to prove myself to them in some way. This is what the last girl sent me:
"I have maybe 1 day a week to do a date, if that. What makes you stand out amongst all these dudes offering to take me for some shitty G&T at their local dive bar?"
What's with the fucking attitude? Can we have a conversation? Meet up for a drink? Get to know each other a little? The Annoying part is that half these girls aren't that attractive. Certainly not hot enough to be making demands... The most attractive girls I match with are like 7 at best, but they act like they're a nine or a ten.
These girls must be batting men off with a stick to be like this. Bumbles just as bad. The same girls that put, "don't be boring and say hi or how are you?" Put the same damn thing when talking to me, but I'm meant to write a poem or something for every girl I match with?
I understand why guys send dick pics right off the bat, because either she's into it or she's not. Either way you get a response.
Anyway, It's pissing me off... Lads, are you experiencing the same thing? And ladies, what's it like on your end?
It’s totally unnecessary to be mean but those apps are a scam and a circle jerk. For example I was on one a few years ago and I clearly stated that I did NOT want kids and didn’t want to date anyone who did. I got long letters from guys saying they wanted to get married and have kids just based on my photo and profile. So of course I ignored them. I don’t know if they were a scam or they just sent the same letter to every girl or what. But there’s a lot of that type of stuff that makes girls ignore messages. However I agree there is no reason to be rude unless the guy is rude which unfortunately also happens a lot.
It could be a culture that cultivates the idea that women are prizes; that they have to believe they're worth it. The reality is, maybe 20% of them are. most women are undatable. But if they don't act like they're a prize, you won't work to win them over. It's stupid but it's what I've noticed from veteran dating app users who apparently get dozens a of messages a day.
That's why don't do online dating. The girls get lots of messages, mostly from men that want to sleep with anything so they think the guys want to date them. Meet people in person if you date. If not, make money and play Xbox instead.
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Cause they can be. Any man that goes on a dating is a desperate loser and women know this. You are just one outta hundreds of desperate guys chasing women giving them compliments and shit that’s why guys really need to stop with the online dating and chasing women. Women’s egos are so fucking high and it’s guys fault for putting them in that pedestal
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