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So I’ve been at my current place of employment for almost two years. There are times when I feel like I don’t make any substantial mistakes & then mistakes come up every couple of days or so. I go a good month with no mistakes & then they come pouring down on me. I don’t know if I’m just paranoid but I feel like my boss goes out his way to micromanage me. Yes, I make mistakes but I feel like if I’m doing well, he will find a way to ask me to do something/want to make sure I read a certain message etc. Like I cannot ever go completely under the radar, maybe I’m the issue or am I being too sensitive? I feel like he speaks with me everyday, or finds a reason to, even if I’m not doing anything wrong. I don’t see this happen with the others, my corrections are usually between leadership and myself. It may happen to the others but I doubt it for some reason, considering I feel like my boss probably has a low opinion of me because I don’t talk to anyone. Is this common, do I suck or does my boss just hate my guts? Lol. Is it normal to feel like the boss singles you out specifically? Yes, I am seeking a new job.

We got into a bad argument a couple months ago after a weird period of us being really distant from each other, and he admitted to being so frustrated he thought about hitting up other girls, but never did. And since then he's been talking to this girl he knows 24/7. I'm not exaggerating when I say there is a notification that she messaged him every time I get a glimpse of his phone. But whenever I told him about how uncomfortable it made me he told me I was being selfish and paranoid and that she needed help because she's struggling with all these different problems and so on, and would continue texting her constantly. I had kept noticing the past two months or so, whenever he'd hand me his phone for whatever reason he'd always delete their DMs before handing it to me. And last night I had finally had enough of that and called him out. I was more mad that he thought I was actually stupid enough not to notice him do that so often then I was about him talking to her. And he kept listing excuse after excuse and kept saying he wasn't lying since they weren't doing anything and I have no reason to be mad and blah blah blah. But he is STILL talking to this chick non stop. And it really bothers me that he uses him knowing her from school (for less of a time than I knew him) as an excuse and will completely ignore my discomfort. I understand he's gonna have female friends and talk to them, I have male friends. But I don't understand why I'm in the wrong for being uncomfortable with him repeatedly crossing the boundaries of my comfort. He claims I'm violating his free will but I'm not asking him to drop communication entirely. I just want him to be mindful of how I feel and take that into consideration before going out of his way to start a conversation every day.