Search Results: sending mixed signals

Guys, cute guy at gym but he is sending mixed signals... I can't tell if I'm creeping him out or if he's interested?

I've been seeing this guy at my gym for the past month off and on each week. I could tell he's into me based on his body language-- it was a giveaway. Stares, he started using machines next to me, finally he made an...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Bff's brother sending me mixed signals, what does it all mean?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My best friend of 11 years (we are both now turning 18) and I have been close forever. Her mom is like my second mom and I am probably closer with their family than my own. It's

My best friend of 11 years (we are both now turning 18) and I have been close forever. Her mom is like my second mom and I am probably closer with their family than my own. It's awesome going to visit them, take tons of trips with them and everything but then... there's her brother. When I was 13, and he was 15, I had a HUGE crush on him one summer I went to visit, out of nowhere! He treated me like a sister then, but at the time I had read too much into it and thought he liked me back. But after moving away that same year, I forced myself to move on after obsessing over every moment I had been around him like the naive middle schooler I had been. Flash forward to now. I hadn't seen them in two years and I guess you could say in that time we all "changed" physically (especially her brother!!!)... and matured. I admitted to him that years ago I had liked him a little. But things started to get confusing and annoying as hell...
Almost 20, he has had a few girlfriends and is now single. After I admitted I HAD liked him, he started asking all of us (me, his sister and two cousins) what our ideal man would be like and types we would go for... it was a little weird, with most of his questions directed towards me... Then, when I went to visit last weekend and we were all together again he started doing things like pulling me onto his lap (when I said I should get off of him he said I could sit in his lap forever...), pinning me down by my wrists and staring into my eyes (in front of his cousins and sister, so awk!), staring at me across the room, randomly smashing me against a wall with his torso and rubbing against me (laughing awkwardly afterwards) tickling and teasing me, and generally other NOT SO SUBTLE and irritating forms of touching!
But- but he teases and tickles his sister and cousins too! Am I just overthinking this? We NEVER Facebook or text... he doesn't even have my name under my number in his contacts. What am I supposed to do? What is going on? Thanks for your input everyone, please help!

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Guy's Behavior

From eyes to lips... flirting.. laughing... however side hugs and hasn't made a move... what's going on?

This guy who I am possibly interested in has been sending some mixed signals that I cannot decode. Maybe it's just me and I am reading to much into this but either way it would be nice to get some opinions on the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

She glances everytime she sees me! Is she sending me mixed signals?

There's that girl in my college , I do really like her and I think she does to! I texted her on facebook, we talked and she ignored the hell out of me by keeping to damn formal! Anyway when I see her at school she keeps...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Girls, Sending a love letter to my ex?

Hello, I broke up with my ex girlfriend in November of 2014. Over the months leading up to now. a lot of mean things were said but, I found out she doeant hate me and seemed to get jealous when she thought I had...

BDan723

Xper 2 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

I told him how I feel and he disappeared. What's on his mind?

I dated this guy for a little over a month. Great dates so far, told me he likes me a lot & thinks I'm out of his league. One night he was drunk he said he thinks he should be more sweet to me, I deserve better &...

Robin23

Xper 4 Age: 42

Guy's Behavior

Does he like me or not?

so there's this guy in my class I kinda like him but its more like a semi-crush his sending out mixed signals one day he'll be calling me baby and give me hugs and be kissing me on my cheeks While the next day he'll...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

He is so effing confusing?

So me and this guy have liked each other for a while and we've been sending each other mixed signals, but today I could see in his face he was really upset but when I talked to him he had the biggest smile on his face....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Mixed signals out the wazoo! What to do?

Just finished a second date with this girl and I'm pretty unsure what to think. The first date started well, great conversation, lots of laughs, but about time to leave she started sending some vibes that she wanted to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why is he sending mixed signals?

I really like this boy. I am pretty sure he likes me. The only issue is the longer we've known each other, the more mixed signals he sends. Towards the beginning of the school year, he smiled at me and I smiled back. He...

geraniumlove

Xper 5 Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

Guys, This guy at work has me totally confused?

Hi everyone, I really like this guy at work but his mixed signals have me totally confused. We work on separate floors but I have to call/email him sometimes to discuss work issues. We started sending flirty emails to...

neffie01

Xper 4 Age: 51

Flirting

Does he like me?

I have liked this guy for a while now, he's giving me signs that he likes me, and my friends keep convincing me about the fact that he likes me too. Recently my friend asked him if he likes me, he said yes, but after said...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

I need help! My crush is sending mixed signals that make no sense, and he's so hard to read?

There's this guy that I really like, but he's not in my grade so it's hard to get close to him. Everytime I see him in the hallway he'll stare, one time he smiled, i doubt myself sometimes so I have my friends look...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I stopped texting her for almost a month. Would it look weird if I added her on Facebook out of the blue?

Two years ago I met a girl through a mutual friend ago at a party but didn't get her number because she was sending me mixed signals. Last month I ran into her at the baby shower of the same mutual friend that introduced...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What signs do guys show when they like a girl?

There's this guy that is sending me mixed signals and I'm really confused. One time he's complementing me by saying how pretty I am and we talked quite a bit and now he's not speaking to me at all (like 1 time a day). Is...

Unicornsquad

Xper 4 Age: 31

Relationships

Should I try or just move on already?

In a long distance relationship for 1 year over. He broke off with me a month ago. The reason he gave was I was suspicious, always fight and no trust. After the break up, I tried to get him back by calling and texting...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Guys, what is he trying to say?

am in a long distance relationship and we have both been busy with work... he needs new clients and has been struggling, i have also been busy with work and other tensions... but i didn't tel him about mine... and i was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, why won't a guy just tell you he isn't interested rather than sending you mixed signals?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Should I stop messaging him?

There is this boy in 6th form with me that really likes me and is really open about it to me. But I told him I dont have the same feelings so we decided to just be friends. Now we message each other regularly but he keeps...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

The first girl I've ever loved. Now what?

So I got to know this girl about 8 months ago, got to REALLY know her a couple moths after that. However we were just friends and didn't tell each other how we felt until a couple months back- she told me first. Since...

Anonymous

(30-35)