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I am 28 year old man with really bad people skills, and I never had a girlfriend before. I don't have a social network of any kind either. I'm a computer science major who had a really, really sh*tty GPA from a Fourth-Tier University. And, when I say sh*tty, I mean that I barely made above 2.0. It's embarrassing.

I have a number of excuses - AD/HD which went untreated for a long time until a couple of years before graduation, plus loneliness and depression. A number of things affected my GPA, but I did manage to do really well in my final one and half years of school.

In spite of my problems, I tried to persevere and make it through. I wasn't about to give up and drop out, and I was too stubborn to change majors. And, looking back at the job market now, it seems that my stubbornness might have actually paid off.

In spite of all my hard efforts that I made to graduate, I still had my suck-ass gpa. Which, I blamed on the difficulty I was experiencing in finding work.

I used to live in North-Eastern, North Carolina - that's where my mom, dad, and brothers all live. The Research Triangle area (Raleigh, Durham, and Chapel Hill) is only about an hour away, and even though there's like tons of Software companies there, plus it's major center.

However, in spite of the tons of jobs there, there's also lots of competition. Plus, the unemployment rate is over 10% there. So, finding a job even at really sh*tty pay seemed incredibly difficult.

So, I finally found a job that actually pays slightly less than the average in my field (from what I hear from other people). But, it's a job and it isn't terrible. However, I had to move to Atlanta, GA which is 9+ hours away from my family in North Carolina.

The job really doesn't involve real software development, which is what I wanted to do after college. But, instead involves what we call "production support" where we do the bitch work for the developers.

I'm not 100% if this job experience will help me find real development work again, but it's obvious that I need job experience because when I talk to people about finding work in North Carolina, they keep asking me about my f***ing gpa. And, I honestly don't think that using professors as job references is helping me either.

So, I need to get more managerial references some how and I need more job experience. SO, I probably should stay at my lonely-ass job.

And, now my employer wants me to move to near Dallas, TX. So, I will be a 21+ hour drive away from home. But, the move might help me out somehow. I'm hoping that I will be able to use some more managerial references and stop having a need for professors who actually may be d***ing me over when people call and ask about me.

Yet, I am so lonely, so lonely. The depression hurts, and it seems that going home would be ideal. But, I also sometimes think that maybe I'm being a little bitch and need to man-up and focus on my future.

I know I know this is a question where I should really choose who the best person is, but even there I would really like to hear more people on this matter, because the more people the better the choices I can make.

1) She was my ex for some time, we dated for about 3 months though, then she dumped me and told me that I was too desperate for her. However she has been chasing me for a long time now, maybe 3 months or so, she seems very keen to be my girlfriend as she doesn't give up and is always there for me and doing stuff for me trying to call my attention (cooks for me, comes to my house, gives me rides)...since women RARELY do any of that, big points for her. Yesterday we almost had sex too, so the feeling is mutual.

2) I met her when she was a freshman in college, she is the best looking all of three, who seems very nice too. However there is a problem, I think she was playing hard to get and making me jealous which I didn't like and I stopped talking to her. She tried to call my attention in her subtle ways so I can go back and talk to her again, wheb we had class, which I like. Unfortunately our college is huge and we don't have classes anymore, I don't have her contact information either and the only way I can talk to her is if I "run up to her". I have the biggest sexual tension with this girl, more than the other two.

3) She is very attractive too, we work together and I think she likes me as well, as she is very nice to me all the time. We chat a little sometimes at work, when we can and I really like it. I haven't ask her out yet, although I should have. The only problem though is that she is graduating this year like me and she will move away withich I will too, which will suck because I don't like long distance relationships.

Any how which one would you choose if you were me?