Search Results: what can push a guy away

I ask my guy constant questions about our relationship because we are friends and he’s been wanting a relationship. I was confused on what we were?

I was so confused so I asked him questions to keep update on our relationship. but the questions were simple, and so I stop beating around bush few days later I ask the major big one. ( how do you feel about me) I asked...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Mental Illness ( Depression & Substance Abuse) and Dating?

There's this man i met a while ago and I'm extremely interested in him. He knows I like him and I'm sure he likes me but we've had an extremely rocky start. It took 4 months for him to actually spend time with me, but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I move on from my long distance ex?

My ldr ex and I broke up last December. It was horrible. He invited me to take a trip with him to London and a simple argument about my behavior turned into a breakup because he forced answers out of me to solve the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a divorced guy not want to date anyone until his kids are grown 8 years from now? Is he just scared to get hurt again?

We dated for about 4 months. It has been 7 years since his divorce. He dated one other woman for 2 months and he ended it with her too saying he just wanted to focus on his kids. I literally was the most patient I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ignorance is bliss? any explanations as to why? please help?

I was close to this guy where we'd chat more or less on a daily basis. We went on hol we were that close. Once we came back, reality hit me (I had a lot of pers stuff go on - he was aware of the majority) and I backed off...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this done and over with? Should I just let it go?

So this guy and I began talking in the beginning of October. Everything was great at first and he always made time for me. About a month later he suddenly doesn’t make any time for me as much but everything is going...

15ferminz

Xper 5 Age: 28

Have a friend tried to kiss you before? How did you react? What happened afterwards?

My guy friend attempted to kiss me while I was watching TV. I freaked out. By the way it was a group hangout but they all went out for a smoke outside. And I was watching tv and all of a sudden his face came in close to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Girls help me understand what happened?

Need opinions asap. So this girl at training was so excited to help me. I was so respectful with her. She tried to teach me many things. So since we both went to the same school we were talking about our profs. She said...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He keeps asking me to send him pics?

This guy I’m ‘seeing’ we have been seeing each other for like a month now. We go to the same school and he geniuenlly is a nice guy and he’s always lovely towards me... but he always asks for pictures. I ended up sending...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

I met the perfect guy. We met through friends and I developed a cursh on A. I think he likes me. DO I fool my self?

Later a friend (B) sent me a screenshot of A's friend (C) asking him about me coming to visit. A said that he is in favour of the idea C went on and told A that I am cute and fun, he agreed The day before we met again I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Later a friend (B) sent me a screenshot of A's friend (C) asking him about me coming to visit. A said that he is in favour of the idea C went on and told A that I am cute and fun, he

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Do people ever actually break up because they're scared of developing feelings?

Early last year a guy who I was casually seeing broke it off with me. His excuse was 'I like you too much to hurt you but I can't do feelings right now' 6 months later he came back asking to be my friend again because...

happilyforeveralone

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why would you stop talking to your girl best mate without an explanation?

I was close to this guy where wed speak more or less on a daily basis. We went away together we were that close. Once we came back, reality hit me (I had a lot of personal stuff go on - he was aware of the majority) and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

IS my friend ok? Not sure how to help.. any advice?

So I worried about my best friend. She has had soo much too deal with in the past 18 months and I think its finally hit her. she's usually the quiet, ill do anything for you, shy kinnda good girl and she still is, however...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How to explain trust issues to boyfriend?

I got in a fight with my boyfriend recently. He was upset because he feels like I’m too needy at times. I’m working on that kind of stuff, and I’ve been doing much better, but during our fight I slipped and told him I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Is she crazy or did I offend her?

So this girl at training was so excited to help me. I was so respectful with her. She tried to teach me many things. So since we both went to the same school we were talking about our profs. She said to me not to trust a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Curious and need advice?

So for those that have seen my previous questions you all know what's going on.. For those that haven't I'll narrow it down.. I was a dick and I made some stupid choices and my boyfriend split with me. (never cheated -...

Amy94x

Xper 4 Age: 32

Relationships

Why can't he express himself? He is like talking only general topics and can't even say anything else?

I am really struggling with a very nice introverted guy who admits that he sucks at texting and can't even speak on the phone. However, I was giving him an opening to express his feelings considering he stalk me on...

KandiKoolaid

Xper 6 Age: 41

Should I take this guy back?

So about a month ago, I posted a question here about my ex. To make a long story short, I've been hurt quite a bit by previous boyfriends. I dated the last guy for about a year and I loved him but at the same time I was...

Anonymous

(36-45)