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My boyfriend is really irritating me. He doesn't seem to try in our relationship. Today, he knew I was being weird on him and he knew why. He said he didn't think I was in the mood for kisses. Could he not try? Could he not try and cheer me up. Tell me he loves me, etc?

He only kept saying, don't be like this. You're down and unhappy. Then he went to bed and said I hope it's all okay tomorrow. I told him it wouldn't be okay if he didn't kiss me. He gave me lots of kisses but he didn't say I love you.

It's not the first time. I always compliment him, tell him why I love him, how much, what I think. He doesn't and if he does it's after I say it.

If he's upset, he closes up and makes me do all the work. And he makes it look like it's all my fault. He does not try in our relationship. I get mad and he gets mad because I nip at him.

A friend of mine told me to be less available, less lovable. Not give him kisses if he doesn't do it. Not say I love you if he doesn't. That it's his problem if he gets angry. That I'll get what I want. But I keep thinking, what if I get a break-up? That's not what I want.

He's a difficult man. Yet, when he's jealous, I explain to him everything in full detail until I know he's better and make sure he knows I want only him. He doesn't do that, he just gets angry at me a deflects.