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Basically would you have rather wanted your first boyfriend/ girlfriend to be 'the one' or would you rather experience heartbreak until you've found 'the one' for you?

The reason why I ask this is because I thought I found the girl who was perfect for me. I thought she was the one.. She was also my first girlfriend (I was 18). We dated for 1.5 years until she broke up with me. (I was just about as perfect a boyfriend could get and I was called 'husband material', but whatever. Distance and another guy got in the way.)

I've been going through heartbreak and though it sucks, I'm glad to experience it because it'll make me a better boyfriend for the next go-around. It has made me stronger and more mature in the long run. Though I loved her and wanted her, I'd rather experience the heartbreak. Id also rather be able to learn from my mistakes so when a great girl comes along, I can give her my all.

What would you choose?

I met this girl because the girlfriend of my best friend had a single friend that was looking for a good guy, who knew how to keep a conversation going, who was kinda funny and generally good looking. The girlfriend of my best frined talked about me and showed pictures. The girl liked it and we arranged a meeting. Things played well, we went to the beach, we dined, we spemt most of the night kissing and she was really into it (no sex, but its ok). I felt we had a lot in common and decided I'd definetively want to see her again.
Next day: my best friend tells me the girl is kinda disapointed because I didn't call her after getting home. Why would I call her any less than a day after? So I thought: "hey, she's really into me". Spent the next days making small talk, keeping it simple and fun. We went for lunch on Friday and it was great. She even said "Im pretty sure my parents will like you", and I was goddamn happy about it. She was definetively girlfriend material, and apparently so was I.
Since she was really bothered I didn't call/text that much I started to cotact her a little more and keep her interested. Things were going well, she always laughts at my jokes. But today we were supposed to meet again. She said she was depending of her cousin to take her (since I dont have my license right now, and apparently neither does she). She told me that at noon. Its 8pm. Nothing. She didn't even bother saying she wouldn't be able to go. I think she blocked me on Whatsapp and didn't send a single message saying we'd talk later or anything. Seriously, WTF?