Search Results: wife still calls me

A year after we got together my now wife, git pregnant. 4 months into the pregnancy age got a job at Walmart and cheated on me with a tile setter from out of state. She didn't tell me until 4 years later. She had just quit seeing him 2 days b4 or baby shower, where I proposed to her. She said yes and eventually married. While pregnant with our second she finally tells me what she did. She broke something in side of me forever. Come to find out for my 1st fathers day she went to buy me a present and instead went a fucked him. He was 12 years older than her and had a girl friend. Now we are trying to work threw all this , oh and the dude called me told me he fucked my girl friend. I called him apathic liar. Still had her back, she filled me good.. . now the closure I need to to move on with my life is "no where to be found" I'm wondering if I go to his house a break his face up, would that help. I think yes.

First of all I live an odd/interesting life & lifestyle.. But it's fun.
I have a wife & my best friend (female) has a husband.
My best friend is my wife's best friend from high school.
Them two have drifted apart. Their personalities & what they like to do for fun has never been more opposite. My wife is very conservative & doesn't do anything that has the possibility of getting hurt or killed. I on the other hand am somewhat liberal & will do so extreme (to her) stuff. I. e tornado chase, sky dive, bunjee jump.
The best friend & I have pretty much the same personality. She is the female version of me. Her husband is basically the male version of my wife. The wife & the other husband have become good friends & go to political functions, or whatever conservative people do. I don't think they have cheated. I know i haven't. There may have been some interesting close calls between the best friend and I, but something always interrupts us. The usual looking deeply into each others eyes after an adrenaline rushed activity then something happens. Usually a loud or an odd noise snaps us out it.
Last weekend we all were drunk and the other husband brought the idea of doing a spouse swap. It was clear all of us were separating emotionally, physically from our spouses. So none of us even got angry at the notion. If fact we all are still thinking about it. We've seen each other naked so there will no surprised there.
I love my wife. Mainly because she is my wife and your supposed to. Same goes with the other couple. If I were to meet my wife now as if we were single I would probably just want to have sex with her ( she's hot) but i wouldn't date her for long. She wouldn't have been my type. The best friend on the other hand would be more of my type. She is sexy and has all the same interests as me.
Could we all still be friends if we did a partner swap? I think so, if it was a mutual agreement between all 4 of us.

I would like your thoughts on this. Would you?