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I’ve been seeing this girl Chantel for just over a month. Chantel has made me really happy. She cooks for me everyday after work, massages me before bed, drove me around when my car failed, and offered to buy me a laptop 💻 if I go back to school. Chantel does a lot for me and always wants me at her house. We spend almost everyday day together. She even told her dad about me. Which she claims she hasn’t told her dad about anyone in years.

Things are going good, but. There’s a major issue. Her best friend is this guy named Godfrey. I don’t care if my girlfriend has male friends. But it’s just awkward when they’re super close.

Chantel n Godfrey have spent lots of time together in the past. She always talks about him and even calls/texts him often. She asked me if her relationship with Godfrey worries me. I didn’t respond because I think it’s too early in the relationship to talk about other guys. When I didn’t respond she said “you don’t have to worry about him. I’m not even attracted to him”. Since then, she’s hasn’t mentioned Godfrey as much.

About a week ago we went to a party at Godfreys and his friend made a joke about Godfrey smashing Chantel before we dated. Even Chantels own friends ask her if she’s ever had sex with Godfrey.

What’s makes me even more uncomfortable is that the she’s moving into the same apartment building as Godfrey. She said that’s the only place available rn. And that it’s just temporary. She gave me an extra set of keys and told I can come over whenever I want. I’m moving back home with my parents if I go back to school. She wants me to move in with her instead.

I like the my relationship with Chantel but her guy friend makes me very uncomfortable. I don't know if I break up immediately or give it some time.

Say anything you worry about

In 75% of the relationships I've been in, I've always been replaced by the guy I was not supposed to worry about after we break up. So I find it extremely hard to believe that only 7% of women cheat like some statistics claim. This leads me to believe that most women cheat, they're just good at not getting caught.