Search Results: dwelling on the past

How do I respond to this email?

Upon consideration, I decided that a friendship between you and I would be too difficult given the amount of drama that has occurred between us. There is no fixing what happened. I have absolutely no hard feelings towards...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

What are the benefits of being single that I should enjoy?

I have never had a girlfriend or been on a date in my life, nor have any girls ever flirted with me, which can be a bit demoralizing at times because I have wanted a girlfriend and even people who get girls to flirt with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this normal in a relationship?

So my bf asked for space I gave it to him even dough I dont think he was seeing me soo much too ask space as it was. Later on he came over and asked for time apart but not breakup does this even make sense? Before that he...

collegegirl909

Xper 5 Age: 39

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Late night thoughts I ponder... Answer me this?

Think about how our lives would change if we were intentional in our every day life,.. Intentional and purposeful. Do you wake up in the morning and do a self assessment of attitude? No? What if you did... I challenge...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If you've just come out of a serious relationship and have those weird mixed emotions, should you mention it to your new girlfriend or girl you like?

I feel I am acting strange. For example, I have met one or two girls I liked enough to get their phone numbers. But after I kind of just stop thinking about them, maybe dwelling on my ex. (It was a bad break up - one of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I feel I am acting strange. For example, I have met one or two girls I liked enough to get their phone numbers. But after I kind of just stop thinking about them, maybe dwelling on my

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Is it possible that this girl was into me?

So, there was one time that I will never forget, I had a crush on a girl. And I was pretty sure she had one on me. Well, one day, she was nervous when about to go on stage for an award. And her friend turned around to me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why can't I just get over my ex?

It's been 5 years since I broke up with my first boyfriend, and I still can't fully get over him. We were only together for less than a year, but I both admired and loved him. I've been in a great relationship with my...

evergreener

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girls when your close male friends get dumped do you usually try to set them up with potential female friends? When do you stop "playing matchmaker"?

Ladies do play the role of "matchmaker" for close male friends after their particularly rough break ups/getting dumped/cheated on? When do you stop attempting to "mend a broken heart"/help them get over a girl? After...

misanthrope37

Xper 6 Age: 38

Why am I suddenly thinking about my ex again, whenever I have a new, caring guy?

My (ex) boyfriend broke up with me 5 months ago. I took it hard and missed him a lot. We've stayed friends, although we haven't spoken in months. I recently met someone new (unexpectedly) and after a month of dating, we...

sagigurrl3

Xper 6 Age: 31

Family & Friends

I don't know how to deal with my dysfunctional family anymore, I feel depressed and lost most of the time?

I feel like when people see me- shy, quiet, brooding blond girl with scars allover her wrist- they already have an idea of what my past was like. A lot of people have been through way worse, I am very lucky in some...

starfishh_

Xper 5 Age: 34

Dwelling on the past, coping with the present?

2 years ago I had been dating a guy for about a year and broke up with him when I started college because I wanted to "try new things" and I also wanted to experience hook-ups and college men(yes I know, selfish). A few...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

What is your opinion on chistians?

I grew up pentacostal and christian. I have seen speaking in tongues, being slain in the spirit, casting of demons. I have aeen people who claim to be christians or rules in the church change because of the world...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Tips for Getting Over a Break Up and Starting Over

My first real relationship ended two weeks ago and it hurts but i need to move on. I wrote this to encourage myself and I thought I should share it. I believe in God thus I make reference to him a lot in this article....

Bunny212

Xper 6 Age: 35

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Ex-boyfriend texting me after bad breakup how should I handle it?

Long story short I broke up with him because he was basically cheating on me with this girl that is just a friend with benefits. It was a horrible breakup I hit him and said a lot of horrible things to him. I was wrong...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I dwelling in the past? how can I forgive & move on before I loose what we have?

Today me and my boyfriend got into an argument. To make a long story short, I thought he was ignoring me yesterday but it turned out that he wasn't. But some way some how twitter & the past got pulled into the argument. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Really feeling tormented about past failures lately?

I'm not sure what my deal is anymore. There used to be this girl, and I really liked her a lot. A LOT a lot. But I screwed it up and came off so weird and I look back on the whole thing and feel so stupid about it. This...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My husband dwelling on my past matter when we argue..advice please

We had a past problem..which bothers him very much,and so do I. I asked him many times if he can forget and get over it,so we can continue.,.i don't want he bring it up every time we have problem,it will ruin the...

Anonymous

(36-45)