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## this post is from a friend of mine that wants to remain anonymous, he's close to me and we've been talking about this for a little while so I thought he might need answers from others online ##

I [23M] with [24F] girlfriend (3 months together) argue about this subject although she knew how I was before we started the relationship (never lied to her). 2 months later I get ultimatums and I also feel like they might be positive decisions for my life if I want a stable relationship...

Hi folks,

As my background, I was raised by parents that should maybe not have had kids in the first place (18+ content). That led me to get a full-time job very young while studying and selling weed to close friends on the side to be able to survive without requiring any student depts, to get out of the hell living with my parents was.

Although I was in it for the money to pay the bills, I started taking some of my stash regularly and it started taking a toll on me; I was getting lazier, less motivated, giving up on projects, etc. The only positive thing from it was that I was able to sleep like a baby every single night.

I know women can change men a lot sometimes in a good way and sometimes the other way around. Although I think it's a good decision on my site to stop doing any illegality and start living normally, I am afraid.

I know money won't come as it used to be, I know I'll have to work my ass off everyday to pay my bills, but I also know I'll have my girlfriend at my side pushing me to go forward in anything ethical I'll do.

**She never told me that she'd leave me if I didn't stop selling nor smoking, but I'm sure she is thinking about it; so it's either my relationship with my girlfriend or banking dollars and taking it eazy...**

P. S. Right now I am unemployed, have 30k aside in the bank, looking for 2 full-time jobs while I wait to get back to school as a construction student (it pays well and has entrepreneurial opportunities).