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Around two weeks ago, my mother and I got in a heated argument. A few times, I’ve told her that I think I’m cursed with interpersonal relationships. I have no friends, the friendships I’ve had either dwindled or I stop talking to them because I felt like I was putting in more work. Regarding romantic relationships, I’m in my twenties and only been on dates , nothing serious. It goes like this: the guys I find attractive only want hook-ups or are jerks & the ones that like me I don’t find attractive. I’m told I’m pretty, I think I’m cute but even when I was skinnier I didn’t get much attention. She thinks that it’s because I’m still guarded, but that doesn’t mean anything. If someone is attractive, they will get attention regardless of personality. The dating apps are my only outlet to meet people, she thinks they work while me & everyone else think they’re trash. A lot of the guys stop messaging or seem to never log on again. Because I told her that I want to date a guy I find attractive/taller than me, I’ve rejected a few guys that were decent looking but my height or an inch taller. She thinks I’m shallow & that I can end up alone, which is one of the reasons why I’m having these issues. I left her at the restaurant & had her take an Uber (true story). She’s saying that I’m having a hard time with the apps & it’s mostly my fault, clearly not the case. All these guys are flakes or just creepy.

Met this guy on tinder. We have been texting for about 3 weeks. Not looking for a hookup, or anything of that matter (hence why I chose tinder lol). We scheduled to go tomorrow but I’m having second thoughts... hear me out before you assume I’m a flake. He has become very casual and subtle with his texting. At first it was large paragraphs and I felt an internet connection, now I don’t feel a thing. He doesn’t text me unless I initiate it, doesn’t ask me any questions about myself, Leaves me on read 80% of the time, busy all day... yet still texts over people (I can see his snap score). Is he just a shitty texter? We will be going to a nearby creek, swimming.
Listen, this will be my first date ever and I don’t know what to do. Please give me some advice, hopefully I gave you enough to work with. Thanks!