Search Results: i need some closure

How should I react to someone telling me they think I need space if it’s not true?

My guy friend told me that he thinks I need space. It’s not true at all I would like some support and consistency. Not that i am going through anything particularly challenging in my life but it’s refreshing to have him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I need some kind of closure?

I liked a guy from school , over time we connected more over texts and calls and grew to like each other , we knew the same too, but I freaked out since it was my first time doing this and he didn't want to ruin our...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Should I seek closure from my first love who ghosted me?

I have not spoken to my ex in a year. I think about him every day but it’s not like I long for him or want to see him. I dread seeing him. The last time we spoke I sought closure then. But I still loved him. He told me he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

The Death of Dating

So I've been pondering this and thinking about writing about it for a while now, and today I came a popular question of @sydneysentinel Do single people even want love anymore? and it reminded me once again that there...

AmandaYVR

Influencer Age: 53

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Why do I still think of my ex girlfriend all the time?

Me and my ex girlfriend met traveling fell in love then moved in together it was a very passionate hard and awesome relationship we were both our first serious relationship. My ex needed to visit her home when she left...

casanova311

Xper 4 Age: 30

Dating

Why did he unmatch me all of a sudden without an explanation?

Ok so I matched with a guy on Tinder 10 days ago. We are currently from different countries but I often travel to his city and should move there next year, so that's why I only use Tinder for that region. I will be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I say no to someone I used to love without breaking their heart?

I wrote about this guy in a few of my other posts so I won’t repeat the details. But long story short: he left me for someone else because our ‘relationship’ was going through a rough patch (according to him). He didn’t...

victoriaxoxo

Xper 7 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

How to have closure with someone that you literally live right next door to?

So this guy and I was in a friends with benefits for a few months and all. Then, as time went by: he started to change and act distance inconsiderate and he started to disrespect me, smh. We have had about 4 different...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys tend to think it’s an inconvenience to talk to their girlfriend when they are “going through something”?

I was having a debate with my friend. He told me he felt that he didn’t want to commit to courting a woman because women have tendency’s that he didn’t like. I asked him to name some quality that he felt all women shared...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you deal with bitterness when you feel like the person who mistreated you “got away with it”?

It took me over a year to finally feel enough closure from my heartbreaking and humiliating ghosting with my first love to feel comfortable with never seeing him again. Actually the idea of seeing him is a bit sickening....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Months after breakup still feeling down?

Ok bad breakup with no chance of closure for me... Managed to slowly make some progress towards recovery... But there are some days that laughing seems so hard... the pain and sadness are there with me... those days are...

littlecook

Xper 4 Age: 31

I don’t know what to do?

so long story short my girlfriend went back to college and broke up with me to focus on school about 2 months after going back. said she still loved me and such just had a hard time balancing stuff. i then find out she is...

kaito11

Xper 5 Age: 27

A Letter I'll Never Send to the Boy That I Still Like

I like you. There, I said it. I wrote it down: I like you. I know, that’s weird. But it’s true. Maybe I’m just a hormonal teenage girl who’s crushing on a boy. But when I think of you, my heart stops. And then it skips,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Guys, Decoding guy speak?

Hi, i was just hoping for some advice, my boyfriend of 6 years just asked for a break (until November) i packed up his stuff he took it was text and flirting back and forth have now been separated for a month so far he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do people try to keep you interested in them if they don’t really love you?

Unrequited love is painful, but what is even more painful is believing that the other person loved you because that’s what they told you. The guy I was with left me in the dark about what happened between us. We were...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did my ex intentionally use me for sex while he was in/working on another relationship?

Me and my ex broke up over the phone, me crying and screaming at him to never talk to me again. Him hanging up in my face. I cried all night and the next day I called him asking to get back together. I got ignored for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Why do friends get so distant or just cut you, off like that?

i usually don't cut friends off unless im at my wits end and they have consistantly been terrible or have just done something that is unforgivable. i also like to tell them "we can't be friends" with an explanation to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he posting petty subliminals on Instagram?

I cut this guy off after 10 months of dealing with him. He couldn’t commit but begged me to stay in his life and told me how much he liked me and even loved me (never once did we have sex or did anything physical). He...

Anonymous

(25-29)