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Search Results: letting down my guard
Should I change myself?
This isn't about changing for someone, but dating people helps reveal things about yourself. I want to change, but I want to make sure it's not based on some unresolved emotional crap and am hoping you guys can see...
alexia1101
Xper 4 Age: 37 Is Timing really an issue for guys or is it just a line? Guys help would be so much appreciated!?
Hi guys thanks for taking a look at this, it's causing me some distress and I would appreciate total honesty :) So I had been seeing a guy for about 2 months, we were having an awesome time together, dates were great and...
NickyMcC
Xper 5 Age: 34 I asked for her phone number and she said "I'll let you know"?
So me and this girl live in the same apartment complex and we occasionally discuss small talk (weather and stuff like that) with each other (mostly once a week) in the elevator before we go our separate ways to class and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is he letting his guard down to me?
I mean he has done this before to me but I was so mad that what he did. So he apologized then I just turned my back on him and rejected it, twice. The following week when i expected him to still be sorry he was strong and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Older men play just as many games as young ones do but better?
I was the one who always kept my guard up and sniffed out all the bs. Until I met this older man. He took everything slow and steedy. When he relized he had gotten me that's all he needed. Now he is showing his try...
dangimconfused
Explorer Age: 36 He is too perfect. What is wrong with me?
Been seeing a guy for almost three months now, he is the sweetest guy I've ever met and I like him so much. I can't find a single bad thing about him and honestly... It scares the shit out of me. He bought me flowers...
Anonymous
(30-35) Being in a relationship means never letting your guard down. Agree or disagree?
Being in a relationship means never letting your guard down. Agree or disagree? Is a relationship a place you can be comfortable and safe being yourself, or a place where you constantly have to be nervous about making...
Anonymous
(36-45) In a relationship where I've no confidence anymore and feel worthless? He's stopped making a effort?
I'm going out with my boyfriend a year he's my best friend I share everything with him my life is like a open book to him he knows everything about me and I trust him so much Before we meet I was out going fun and had...
Anonymous
(30-35) Letting someone in - letting your guard down?
I find it very difficult to let a partner into my life, I always have my guard up as I am afraid of getting hurt. Recently I have entered a new relationship and we have been together for 5 months now. He feels that I need...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you approach a street cat?
Hello! All those years, I've been a huge dog fan - although I love all animals equally. I don't know why, it's almost like I'm one of them and I instinctively know how to approach them; pets from calm Poodles to scary...
loxagos_snake
Xper 6 Age: 33 Girl says she doesn't want a serious relationship 'right now'?
Basically, I've been dating this girl now for about a month and a bit and it's obvious that we really like eachother and all that. However on one date when I offered her my hand while we were walking, she turned it down,...
dyfman31
Xper 5 Age: 31 We're not dating or in a relationship so how should I act?
I have no idea how I'm "supposed" to act. People say you need to be yourself, but a lot of other people say there are things you should and should not do... I want to open up to him, get to know him, have him get to know...
Barbie_doll07
Xper 5 Age: 33 Trying to understand if she is going to start trusting me again.?
Been on a break with my girlfriend for a month and a half. She says she still cares for me and wants to fix this but it is so hard for me to get her to start putting her guard down. I made the mistake of loosing her...
Anonymous
(36-45) How much time would you give a girl/guy you're dating to trust you?
So I've been together with this guy for a little less than three week and I'm still having troubles trusting him and letting my guard down. My last two relationships went to hell and I was left an emotional train wreck...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it something about me?
Ok so is this just me? I'm a single mum of 2 my ex cheated constantly from day one but I loved him and stayed for nearly 10 years until I had enough. After 3 years I got with my friends brother done everything for him we...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I let my guard down, was I stupid?
So, my best friend and I have been close since we were young, like 6th grade and younger. We went to the same church and school, blah blah. I always had a crush on her older brother of three years and it was never really...
deliciousxtorment
Xper 3 Age: 32 Green light? Outspoken & dominant woman is now softspoken and letting me take lead?
I like this girl in college who is normally very vocal and dominant socially. She was assertive with me when we first met and for the first 2 months that I've known her. I've been persistently trying to talk to her. I...
Anonymous
(36-45) I'm afraid of guys, I don't know what else to do?
No- let me rephrase that- I'm petrified of guys. I don't know how to deal with this and I don't think I want to- for fear of being deluded into thinking 'I am safe' and letting my guard down. I'm 17, just got my first job...
Anonymous
(25-29) Unrequited love bringing about intense embarrassment?
It's the same old story we've heard a million times. Basically, I didn't even believe in love before this man came along, and he pushed and pushed and PUSHED his way into my heart, knowing it'd be an arduous journey....
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, at what point do you feel comfortable and really start to open up to a guy?
Say you met a guy and he talks to you around 3 times a week. How long do you take before you start to open up about yourself to him? The point where you're actually starting to ask things back and letting your guard down...
Anonymous
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