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Hello all, I am a 21 years old girl I work in an international company. The first day I got into the company I noticed a guy although we never talked he captured my attention I felt like he was kinda different standing all alone silent and shy I spent the whole day recalling that scene. Days after days I started bumping into him quite a lot and everytime it feels the same like an attraction that I couldn't control till I had to go with him for a mission out of town. He never talked untill I initiated & asked him " you seem upset are you angry or Something" he cracked a laugh and asked smilling "why would you say that" our conversation ended in that question I didn't what to answer. Day after he came to me asked a question & later same day I called him on phone he was so nice & cute like" take care thank you look after yourself" but when he came to my office days after for a work meeting just me & him he refused to sit next to me but I insisted so he did However he didn't even say HI & seemed very bothered and bored & left without saying a word AND since that day he ignores me like we never met each other even if it's just the two of us in a small place he doesn't even look at me or say HI Compete ignorance AND I can't help myself to feel hurt by his attitude. What shoul I do? next month I have another out town mission with him and I'm so afraid it will hurt my feelings more to be ignored by him a whole day sitting next to each other. Please help me !!! How can I stop my heart pain bcz of someone treating me this way?

Does it mean that you want to get to know her better?
Or are you just physically attracted and don't want to take it any further?

For example:
a guy never used to take much notice of the girl at work (when they never spoke before & were complete strangers).
But, now they've both spoken to eachother a few times and became 'friends' on facebook, this guy now constantly checks her out and stares at her, but instantly looks away when she catches him staring. This guy stares constantly at her face, when having group conversations at work (when he could have easily stared at other people instead, but he chooses to just stare at her). He also sometimes smiles and laughs at her jokes.

~ Is it just physical attraction?
~ Or does he like her, but is too shy to talk to her directly?
~ or has he just started developing feelings?

This guy and I make lots of eye contact at work. I notice when I talk to him his eyes dilate and his face gets red. We don’t talk much though. We are both super shy. He always stands right next to me when putting stuff away or reaches for the shelve right under me or accidentally bumps me or brushes on me. He sometimes has a half grin. Or smiles. Or has a blank face. I asked him if he needed help today and he said yes please and then asked if I can also help him do dishes with a winky face lol. I know that he did have a girlfriend but she hasn’t posted a picture of them on her Instagram since February 19th so I’m not sure if they are still together. He also offers to help me with almost everything. He sometimes stands right behind me and reaches for the counter to put dishes away. Or cuts in between me and another girl with his body facing mine and smiles. His mother works at the same place and she just recently starts to smile and wave more towards me. He doesn’t act like that with any other girls. He is really cute too. I had a sex dream about him the other night. I just hate how painfully shy I am. There’s been times we ran into each other and he was talking to me and looked like he was gonna kiss me. He’s also super busy with school. He acts polite around me too. I also find that he waits around until my station is all cleaned and done before he clocks out (even if his is previously done) and he waits like 30 seconds after I walk out to clock out before he tags along. Another coworker is friends with the girls Instagram that I stalk and she wants to ask if they are still together but I kinda don’t wnana know because that would ruin all attraction towards him