Search Results: contact a guy first after a one night stand

We both give each other mixed signals?

it happened around August I got close to a guy that's 2 years younger than me but that's nothing new to me. we knew each other before but we didn't get to know each other until the end of summer. he was the one who...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he gone, what does he want from me?

I have a life long bud, I moved 14 years ago. Since, then when I visited home hung out at all night eateries & turn into sleeping together few times. In between the 14 years he became engaged to another girl. Always seem...

Kareydear

Xper 5 Age: 43

Does he like me, like I think he does...? Can relationships come out of meeting at the bar/drinking?

I want your opinions, people…what is your take on this guy? Okayyy, so on 11/10 I met this guy at my favorite bar. I was quite drunk due to the fact I had been at a wedding with a cheap bar. He was over by my friends...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Need help with a hard-to-read guy...so confused!

So I met this guy a few months ago now at a friends birthday. He added me on Facebook that night, but there was no real contact until I went to one of his gigs (he's in a band) and he was quite different from the first...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

How to over come the mind games? How to react and what to do.

Hey everyone, I'm not one for relationships and I never knew what mind games were until meeting this girl online over a game. At the start we hit it off pretty well she would would make contact all the time she stated I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this flaky girl interested in me or not? Mixed signals?

Hi ladies & gents, I'm a young looking Asian who just went on a first date with this Caucasian girl who's fairly young (she's about to turn 21 I just turned 29). To keep it short, the first date went really well: - Lots...

Chewybacca

Xper 5 Age: 42

She wanted to introduce me to her coworker. But the coworker was way below my standards.

Let's call the girl "Susy" I know Susy from college. She dated a guy I lived with my 2nd year. After they broke up we didn't really stay in touch. 3 years later she asks me to join her volleyball team. So during the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Why did my ex do this?

Over the summer I broke up with my girlfriend after 11 months. After we broke up, and I mean days after, she was contacting me constantly and trying to get me to fix her problems. I couldn't do anything for her and it got...

Noodlenoodle

Xper 5 Age: 31

Family & Friends

Am I being too harsh or just sensible? Massive headspin.

Ok, so I met this guy in 2010. I didn't know much about him but he was really nice to me and we played together in a band. He told one of our mutual friends that he liked me and thought I was beautiful. I'm painfully shy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is it time to give up on this guy?

I have been seeing a guy on and off since November of 2011. We hung out and hooked up a bunch for a while, but then we got into an argument because he is terrible at making plans, and I basically got tired of always...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

He says he is not into texting but he still has time for Facebook?

Ok I regret this now but I did have sex the first time I met this guy. However I have heard and know that one night stands can develop into further things IF the attraction is very strong. He initiated contact(on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why can't people be decent human beings when dating?

I really should give up dating - not that I'm having that much luck these days. When did it get so d**n hard? I'm a very attractive 40+ female and yet I sit alone most weekends. Yes, I am selective but I know what I want....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Did I scare him away? Or what do I do? GUYS ONLY!

Around 3 weeks ago a guy asked for my number. His cousin who was with him asked for my bffs number. We all hung out about an hr later at a diner. Then later that night at a bon fire. My bff ended up having sex with her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he still interested or does he really just want to be friends?

I was dating a guy for just over 2 months; he is 35, I am 29.. When we met, he was unemployed by choice, and had enough in savings to go another 3 months. He also was trying to start up his own business. He ended up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy and girl behavior at parties, what's up with that?

So I’m young and I go to parties now and then. And usually, there’s always a guy that catches my eye. After some eye contact, he approaches me, we flirt, we dance and we end up making out the entire night. I don’t do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did he want a relationship?

I met this guy more than a year ago. He seemed to be attracted to me. I was into him but I didn't want to get involved with him because he is much younger and a few other reasons. Also, I am looking for a long term...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What to do about a frat boy?

Okay so I know theirs a stereotype around frat boys but I'm in a sorority and have seen it all so theirs nothing anyone can tell me that I don't already know lol. So there's this guy he knows a lot of the girls in my...

Anonymous

(30-35)