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My boyfriend of three years and I broke up, for like four days. It was a hard time and I was very upset and hurt. Long story short, we talked and worked it out and we are back together. by the way, we have lived together for a majority of our relationship. But, once I told my mom and sister, that we are back together they have been so negative. I have been in multiple relationships where I have been hurt and I have listened to them when it comes to it. But now, that I am making my own choice and choosing to stay. They make me feel horrible for it. by the way, he didn’t cheat or anything or done anything horrible to me. We just weren’t really discussing what bothered us in our relationship. Anyways, now that we are back together. It’s been maybe a month or so now, they make me feel horrible for getting back together. My mom keeps saying “you guys argue all the time” when we literally don’t. And even if we did, I don’t tell her everything because of her reaction. I purposely don’t tell her stuff because she will hold onto it and make it a big deal. My mother and my sister also said they’re waiting for our relationship to fail and said that I’m not as strong as a woman as I think I am because we decided to get back together. I get that they’re trying to be protective and such. But they can also be supportive even though then don’t agree with the decision. And every time I ask them to be more supportive they start yelling and say that they are being supportive but continue to tell me how much of a failure my relationship is going to be and how i should listen to them and leave the relationship still. It’s almost like they’re mad at me for not making the decision they want me to make. I have been dating this man for three years and I am not going to just breakup because my mom and sister will think negative things. I’ll do it if I want to. And I’m 25 and he’s 24. But am I just misinterpreting their words or does it sound like they’re trying to control my decision?

So my ex and I were together for 5 months in college we just broke up two weeks ago

The Breakup Pros and Cons

Cons
-He Can’t do distance (separation anxiety/don't feel like he'd be giving me the attention I deserve)
-He said that he doesn't want a relationship right now because he has always been a relationship guy and wants to experience what it's like to be single
-He wasn't making me a priority and that he doesn't feel like putting time into a relationship if he's going to half ass it or doesn’t see it in the long run
-Doesn’t want me to feel trapped waiting for him, says to take advantage of other opportunities
- We took a break before we broke up because he didn't really want to break up

Pros
-He has told me multiple times that there is a possibility of getting back together next semester
-He has promised me we would stay friends too
-He made it very clear he doesn't intend on seeing other people, he just wants to focus on himself (doesn't do random hookups)
-He told me he hasn't lost feelings
-We still text and snapchat every single day
-We are also planning on visiting each other over the summer too
-Plus we agreed that if we both still wanted to hooking up was on the table
-My name is still my nickname in his phone
- We both would never date anyone from home so we will both be single next semester
- We agreed we could still hookup if we both wanted to, my idea
- His friends and family love me

PLEASE HELP I AM SO CONFUSED :(