Search Results: guys being clueless

I called out my crush that she isn’t interested in me and said is that a joke?

I’ve been flirting with my friend who I’ve known for over 4 years and she has showing signs. But she never said anything directly saying she likes me. The closest she has said that she likes is when she told she is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Vicous circle with low selesstem and dating?

Typically during a year I would at least experience a huge flow of insecurity, sadness and basically just beating myself up and only focusing on the bad stuff. Im sure im not the only one. But mine seem to start or is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, How to politely ask out a girl in retail?

I'm a guy who doesn't want to come across as an ass. I also have no idea whether girls are flirting with me or not. But there was this nice girl who made me truly question whether she was interested in me or if it was...

greenmane419

Xper 4 Age: 29

Should I expect effort from a man I was never official with? Or am I being over dramatic?

This guy I've been talking to and dating for around a month decides to meet me at a club. I wasn't planning on going clubbing that weekend but thought it would be nice to see him. Upon meeting him there, he buys me a shot...

AshleyBenedith

Xper 6 Age: 31

He Has So Far Initiated Every Conversation Text Wise, Hangout Sessions; Is he being friendly? Or Am I over Thinking This?

In September of 2016 during my first year of university I met a guy in one of my classes. We sat close by one another but did not begin interacting until October of 2016. He then added me on Facebook in November of 2016...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Fake account says boyfriend cheating?

Two days ago I received a “message request” on Facebook from a fake account. The message proceeded to tell me that we didn’t know each other but knew the same people to trust them that my boyfriend is unfaithful. Then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Clueless guy or doesn't take no for an answer?

So this guy who goes to my uni has tried to get in contact with me so to speak. It started with him messaging me on messenger for like almost a year, with about 2-3 months apart, which I didn't reply on. I didn reply to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Tell me about female sexuality and competitiveness?

Just wondering. I have a hard time coming to terms with how women are valued for looks. Its hard because I was raised to value my talents over looks and how 'pretty' i am which is a 7 without make up and a 9 with make up...

juststrollin

Explorer Age: 31

Is he not into me or is he just clueless?

We text, talk at basketball games, we’ve FaceTimed and we went to the mall together. We knew each other because we’re in the same friend group but we started talking at a basketball game when he was sitting by himself....

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to get over a crush over your guy best friend?

I've known him for a while now and I started liking him about a few months back. I've stared to look at some signs that he reciprocates but its all mixed signals. I let time pass to see what would happen but nothing seems...

b_stlouis01

Xper 4 Age: 35

Did this girl like me all along? Was I just clueless?

3 years ago, I was working at my school's bookstore. We have 3 campus locations and I was assigned to work at a different store for one shift. This girl, let's call her Adriyana, only worked at this store. My friend,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How much attention is enough with women?

I dated in the past and i have went out with girls so iam not completley clueless... thing is girls find me very attractive, iam 6'2 and very good looking to a lot of women, even the hot ones dont hide it... but i still...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I dont understand why girls that like me ignore me when they are with someone else?

Iam not clueless i have dated and talked to dozens of girls, some even approached me, but it always surprises me when this particular issue happens... a lot of girls at college show interest in me, and by interest i mean...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She doesn't text back. Girls, considering she does/doesn't like me, what would she want to hear from me?

So basically it is about a girl I've known for a few months now on the internet. (My other question shares some details in case you care) We used to text before, now we don't anymore. Two days ago I texted her again...

iamDennis

Xper 4 Age: 29

Does he even like me? Or is it all in my head?

So this guy I met randomly two months ago when I lost my way, and he helped me. Before we parted ways he asked for my number and said that if I had time to have lunch or dinner with him sometime. After that we texted a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Can a guy tell a girl is innocent/naive when it comes to flirting/dating?

I tend to act really cutesy and innocent, just in general, and i’m scared that guys will realize that I've never had a boyfriend/dating experience as a result of that behavior. The best way I can describe my behavior, is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Thoughts on How Not To Scare Off Girls

A lot of guys scratch their heads when good flirtatious vibes with a girl suddenly come to a screeching halt and we are left clueless as to why she went from really feeling our vibe to being completely repulsed. We often...

pavlove

Editor Age: 34

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