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I fully appreciate sitting with any of my lady friends as individuals or in a group sharing anything their hearts desire or just feel to communicate. I am actually skilled at this and can even be the inanimate listening object asked for if necessary.

I am not willing to do that often. One sided communication is not communication. If it is not communication, what is this unnatural phenomena?

Is it therapy that costs hundreds of dollars a per hour. If one just needs to talk, do so but do not require a human to be a statue making contact only with eyes. We are different but not that different.

Women in my experience of women do not do this with each other. Expecting a man to do this is probably not the best of considerations or expectations.

Women do not do well at this with men. When men want this arrangement for whatever the reason, they tend to express regret over having done it because their silent listeners keep bringing it up later over and over again. What are the rules of this form of engaging disengagement?

If this is something you feel you must do, announce what you want and ask for it. If we say we are agreeable, package your presentation as succinctly as possible. Do your best not to be long because this need is something not quite relationship and beyond the bounds of relationship. This might require love between adults who have negotiated an agreement for such behavior from time to time.

This in my view requires a stranger who has no emotional investment in you. They are called therapists and for hundreds of dollars an hour will give you a blank face without the need to interrupt until your time is up like mine is now. My name is Oscar. My friends call me O. I hope you will.