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Quiet love-- does small things to show she cares, is there whenever you need her, lets you have your freedom but trusts you not to abuse it, prefers quality time over quantity, treats the relationship like its sacred, not something to brag about to discuss with other people, may not do a lot of pda but showers you with affection when you are alone, etc.

Loud love- posts about it, professes her love to you vocally more than once, may be needy, clingy, and possessive, loves to vocalize how you are her man, "touchy-feely" whenever you are somewhere, some can be territorial, loves pda, more public about the relationship, showers you with affection in public and alone, but more so in public, etc.

Note everyone will fill every part of 'quiet' or 'loud' love-- this is just my interpretation of it. Personally, I fit into and usually show quiet love. From my experience (NOT saying this is always the case, just based on my personal experiences with guys), this works the best for men that are older and secure (work their own job, emotionally stable) and less so when the guy is my age and insecure or less emotionally stable. The last time I dealt with the latter, he claimed I didn't love him and questioned my feelings for him. He would try to 'test' me by flirting with other girls to make me jealous, but when I wouldn't react, would lash out at me. It wasn't until he broke up with me and some time passed (he dated another girl) that he realized all the things I did that proved my feelings for him and he wanted me back.

Most of my guy friends have voiced they prefer a girl that shows loud love because it shows she is proud to be with him and because they feel loved and cared for. I want to know what other guys think? Do you prefer quiet or loud love from a girl?

So my guy friend and I have a complicated relationship. We used to be more than friends in the past, but we never gave it a title... (and just to clarify, we've never slept together), but anyways, now that he has started dating this new girl who has been with him for two weeks, I was curious to know what guys tell their new girl friends. I saw her a few days ago and even though she has never met me she looked like she recognized me from afar, which I thought was weird because it means she has to have seen a picture of me.

A couple of other things that were a little weird: She introduced herself as my guy friend's girlfriend instead of telling me her name and asked who I was and if I even knew him. As soon as I told her my name she was like "oh, he already told me ALL about you" in a slightly rude way. I was trying really hard to be friendly and even though she was smiling and acting sweet, she was giving a bad vibe. Like when my guy friend asked me to come over so he could ask me a question, she started getting really territorial and started doing a lot of PDA in front of me (while darting glances at me).

I'm getting the feeling my guy friend has told her a lot more about me than just the basic we are friends. I was just wondering if this is normal for guys? Do you all tell your new girl friends everything about your past friendships and relationships?