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I used to argue with my mother too much about my then boyfriend. She once said ''I hate his guts, if you ever marry him, I'll just fake it, I hate him'' and I didn't know why she was being that hateful. I've spent years trying to prove her wrong, trying to focus on his good qualities. At some point she stop arguing and pretended to be nice, be a hypocrite basically and he noticed it.

End-results:
Everything came to light and yes he was a real bad person from the beginning. He turned out to be worse than my mother's version. I found out elsewhere and on a private conversation that he wanted my parents somehow evicted, to get them to put me on their will soon so he can take over 1/2 of the property. That's one of the many things I found out about him; the others is just as bad.

Unlike the few successful stories of how you were able to prove your parents wrong would you call this a sad ending? Here I am... wasting years of my time trying to get my mother to see the good in him... only to find out he really horrible.

When My cousin died he was a new born baby her mother is not my Auntie but my Uncle is My Uncle didn't want the baby Because it was just a one night stand Im 7 years old that day when I heard them arguing my Uncle and Auntie was not married yet but she's pregnant with a girl but my Cousin who died is a boy to make it short he is not made a mistake but his parents are, and to make it shorter My cousin that is a girl and my cousin that is a boy who died are half siblings since same Father but different Mother and when my Dead cousin was already burried in the grave we went home still broken but when I went outside the house I saw a big green butterfly and it is beautiful so I called my Grandmother's friend which is My dead cousin's Grandmother and told her about the butterfly and she said"that is your cousin dear he might be dead but his presence will always still near us and protecting us even when he is already gone" so I was amazed about what she said and I can't still believe what she said.
But I want your opinions if you believe in it😅