Search Results: attracted to outgoing women

Does the attraction men feel to a woman physically = women's attraction to a man's strength / confidence?

So, I see many women on this site call men shallow because they put such a high value on a woman's looks (over personality for example). I think this criticism is unwarranted. Women claim to not be as shallow and put...

JakeLongOT

Xper 6 Age: 43

Society & Politics

Initiating contact with co-worker?

aight so a quick run-down...ive been chatting with this girl I work with now for about 2weeks. she is a very smart and well spoken woman, and I like her honesty and sense of humor. We click...anyway I was trying to avoid...

nastynate7188

Xper 5 Age: 38

Is he just not that into me?

So we've all heard the wise old adage: "He's just not that into you." What I need to know is whether it's true in my case! I recognized a guy from choir a few weeks ago at a college formal, and though we'd never...

serendipitous

Xper 5 Age: 34

Shy Girls: The Complete Guide to Understanding the Quiet Ones

Many shy girls lament their lack of dating success due to their personality and its perceived shortcomings. In defense of shy girls everywhere, this article is dedicated to them and to the men who wish to date them....

TheDigitalSaint

Guru Age: 43

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Dating

I don't want to be a pushover. How to handle this situation?

Okay there are these two girls that I went out with that I found out were friends. The thing is I went out with one for a while after the second date told her I liked her and hoped to eventually develop the relationship...

Anonymous

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Do most guys feel more attracted to confidentgirls than to shy girls?

Guys that are more attracted to outgoing, confident, outspoken women: why do you think you like these girls better? Guys that are more attracted to quiet, mysterious, and introverted woman: why do like those better? I...

cherryluv16

Xper 6 Age: 31

How do you attract a woman?!

I just don't get it. I'm outgoing, nice, caring, pretty decent looking, funny, etc... basically everything people told me I need to work on to attract somebody. But it isn't enough apparently! Doesn't matter what the...

Anonymous

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Why do guys have to be a "Man" in order to be boyfriend material? why is it always non-physical qualities

that what make a man a "Man"? It really pisses me off, it's not fair at all, it's like girls, women want the whole package, meanwhile most of us guys are okay with just half the package. Why is it that the criteria that...

Anonymous

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Women turned off by quiet, 'overly positive' men?

My female friend says women are either sexually attracted to outgoing, assertive positive men or quiet guys with brooding and more negative dispositions. She said "you come across as too laid back and comfortable, too...

Anonymous

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What type of woman does a man want?

I realize that all men are different, but according to articles I've read in magazine there' s 25 things all men want in a woman. So I was just wondering what do men want? I know me personally I've always had it in my...

loveisbeautiful

Editor Age: 39

Other

Does this seem like a natural couple?

So I'm an outgoing, funny, musical, non-athletic with a slightly intense personality who smokes weed relatively often, but responsibly. I've found that I'm often emotionally attracted to women that are shy,...

Anonymous

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Break Up & Divorce

I'm in a serious relationship going 5 years now, but I've also been having feelings for my best friend for 2 years!

Hey everyone, Well, its pretty straight forward. I've been in a serious relationship for the past 5 years. Things are going well between us, the sex, the feelings and IMO basically the essentials to keep the relationship...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can he really be this shy/insecure or what?

This guy and I have been attracted to each other for a while . I know he just got out of a long term relationship and probably has commitment issues. Sometimes he responds to my texts, sometimes not. We've hung out a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

I have no friends...no nothing.

For 22 years of my life on this earth, I have only had 1 best friend stick with me throughout high school and no real friends throughout college. I am not the most outgoing person...actually I'm very shy...i have trouble...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy is really serious and quiet, but he is extremely laid back and confident. Are there women that prefer these sorts of men?

If a guy is really serious and quiet, but he is extremely laid back and confident enough to ask out any woman he is attracted to and moves on if they aren't interested. Or is it true women only like the men that are...

Anonymous

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Why am I having no luck with the ladies?

I have been single for almost a year now. It almost feels impossible to get a girlfriend or even a date. When I am talking to women having a good time, get her phone number, everything seems fine until I call or text back...

Anonymous

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Would you think it was pathetic if a guy told you he was nervous?

I have been working in my office building for the past 4 years. 2 years ago my heart stopped when I saw this absolutely adorable woman pass by. I would see her sporadically until recently I have seen her in the last 2...

Anonymous

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Is she trying to make me jealous?

Some background for you on the relationship between me and her. This female constantly will stare at me when I'm "not looking", and when I look at her she disconnects eye contact fast. (looking downwards or away to the...

Anonymous

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