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Search Results: flirting with bartender
Is this bartender just flirting to avoid boredom/get good tips, or is he interested in me?
So there's a bar that I frequent. 1 of its bartenders is popular in our town; smart, funny, attractive, 26 to my 23. I met him 9 months ago when I started going with my then-BF; I noticed quickly that he'd stare at me...
Chinkabelle5
Xper 5 Age: 34 Does this guy fancy me or just think im cute? (Please answer, pretty please?) Also should I add him on Facebook?
I'm a bartender (18). What do you think of this... This cute guy (24ish) always says how I'm the nicest barmaid (he keeps on saying it lol!), that I'm "too nice for this place (my bar)". Tonight he hugged me for no...
Anonymous
(30-35) If you are a male bartender, do you try to holla at ladies in the bar/restaurant?
I notice that there are a lot of attractive bartenders that work at restaurants and I was wondering, if you are a male bartender, and you see an attractive lady what are the chances that you will try to talk to her? Do...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this hottie bartender reeeaally flirting with me, or am I just reading too much into it?
Ok, so I've been going to this bar with my friends semi-regularly, and there is this super cute bartender. As time has gone on, I and one of my friends has noticed a difference in how he acts towards me. He started...
SingerSam13
Xper 5 Age: 40 I sent the girl I like a text saying "do you know if you'll be getting off work at a reasonable time"?
I sent it about an hour and a half ago. She's a bartender, so I know she's quite busy... last night she said "as long as I get off at a reasonable time" which means that sometimes she can get off work early. I was curious...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do some girls get so jealous when there's nothing, but don't care when a girl is obviously flirting?
My ex girlfriend would freak out over nothing at all; she'd get mad at me when a slutty looking girl walked past us, even if the girl wasn't very pretty. There was some freakishly tall and lanky hipster chick wearing the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it weird to just message her on Facebook like this?
-i'm a club promoter and she's a bartender there (i know, a match made in heaven right lol) -we flirt a bit, always smile at each other and exchange a couple words... she teases me -never got a chance to actually talk to...
e92brah
Xper 6 Age: 33 Trying to read his mind, help?
Hi. I started a job a couple of months ago as a part-time waitress, and have been getting along really well with one of the bartenders. We definitely have chemistry and a connection and the way we talk is flirty to...
Anonymous
(25-29) My crush likes me, but he is terribly shy, how to speed him up?
So I fell for a really shy bartender, he would always try to flirt and touch me, he is acting so awkward and sweet at the same time ;) but he is taking things terribly slow, it took him 3 month to finally let me know that...
bubble1111
Xper 5 Age: 33 If a girl touches your hand is that a pretty good sign that she wants you?
I know its kind of a dumb question because I'm pretty sure I already know the answer but just want to get some more opinions. I was out at a bar with a friend and our bartender was this really attractive blonde girl....
Anonymous
(36-45) Bartending question!!! Sketchy bar with creepy guys?
So I recently got a job as a bartender at a pretty sketchy bar. By sketchy, I mean that the clients there are all older men and I've heard that it's a bar that sells cocaine... The customers are all very friendly and...
xkaylakayla
Xper 5 Age: 32 Why did my ex send me a drink at the bar?
So my ex and I are in college and had an amazing 3 months together, and up until the day he broke up with me he couldn't get enough of me -- constantly needing my attention, wanting me to come over, etc. I was his first...
Anonymous
(30-35) Genuine Interest? Friend-zone? or just being nice?
I met this girl in one of my college classes a few weeks ago. We ended up exchanging a few emails, then phone numbers. For a few days we would text back and forth, asking about interests, teasing, and gave some nice...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, would you take a bartender seriously?
I'm gonna be a bartender. I love mixology, the bar/club atmosphere, the music, meeting people, flirting... all of it. But I am worried that being a bartender will remove my chances of ever having a serious relationship....
summerburst
Xper 7 Age: 31 Why can't a lot of girls admit they like the attention they get from a guy, but then "complain" about it.
I see this one a lot! A girl will hang out with a guy, but not be into him, but keep letting him hit on her while rejecting his advances. But she won't cut him off completely and just keep letting him hit on her. I know...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why didn't he ask me for my number?
I was at a networking event that was at a bar. It was local so I had to try some samples to find out which one and this bartender was quite helpful. The point of me going there was to talk to recruiters and have them look...
swimmer76
Xper 6 Age: 36 This girl a psycho or likes me?
I've been flirting on and off with a bartender for months at one of my favorite spots. I never took it seriously until recently. First she wanted me to know she was available, so we flirted. Next time in I was approached...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Women you're not dating gets mad?
when a woman that you're not dating but flirted with a lot gets mad. this particular woman is a bartender. I noticed that she never would agree to meet for lunch. and that she wouldn't reply. so I started treating her...
mikewnaz
Xper 6 Age: 44 Is my co-worker flirting with me?
I'm the bartender, he is a waiter. He has a girlfriend he lives with. He doesn't talk about her at all. He keeps joking with me and teasing me . Sometimes when I'm checking my phone in the cut he will get in my personal...
Anonymous
(36-45) Ladies who are waitresses/servers/bartenders, how do you show interest towards a patron?
For all the waitress-types on this site, how do you show interest towards a patron? Whether it's his first time or he's a returning customer? And no I don't mean when you want a bigger tip, I mean if you're genuinely...
cheesesteak7
Yoda Age: 41 