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Do you have MORE male or female friends?

I get along with both genders, but slightly more with men, than women. I keep a lot of people 'at arms length' because they seem 2 faced or suspicious or create drama, so im friendly with them, but keep conversations short, so that they can't get too close to me.

Its kinda like 55% male friends, 45% female.

I like how chill some guys are and i have a lot in common with some of them, e. g. same sense of humour.
But i do have some nice girls who im friends with as well.

HOWEVER, im careful with who i become close friends with / talk to on a regular basis, cos I've realised that a lot of people want to 'use' people & have ulterior motives.

Also, i'm very aware of guys who try to be "friends" with me, or are overly-friendly, just cos they want sex (gross!).

But generally, i find some girls untrustworthy, cos in the past, whenever i had female bestfriends, they always compared themselves to me, or were worried that their boyfriend fancies me, so they ended up gossiping about me, tried to ruin things for me, and acted VERY insecure around me!