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I unintentionally became someones mistress. He had a wife he never told me about and I found out the better part of a year into the relationship. Honestly in hindsight I'm impressed he managed to keep it going that long, but obviously I was hurt by it.

He told me himself, as he and his wife were going to get a divorce so I suppose he wanted to exchange me in as the newer model and I guess he expected me to be okay with that? Happy about it even?

I kicked him in the balls real hard once he finished talking. Turns out his wife had done the same after he broke up with her not long before so I don't imagine that was fun for him, which is what this question is about. Apparently he's been having some... complications down there since, which was neither of our intentions but I can't say I'm that upset.

Basically my question is was it too far? It was far more of a betrayal for his wife than me, and it wasn't my intention to do any damage but at the same time he deserves it.

We were together for 9 years overall, engaged for the last 5, yet he never actually wanted to... get married. It turns out this was because he had been cheating for at least 2 years towards the end, and I have strong suspicions before that as well.

So, when I found out, I confronted him! There was a big argument, and he just denied over and over even when I showed him proof (his 'girlfriend' had just broken up with him and contacted me to spite him).

So, I ended up kicking him in the balls. Three times.

Some people since have said this was overkill, and my only rebuttal is that he wasted 9 years of our lives, so no it wasn't.

What is the general consensus?