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Not trying to toot my own horn here. Like I am the type who is definitely not conventionally attractive. I am not masculine, don't even have all my hair, can't grow facial hair, and skinny. i am not tall either 5'8. It doesn't happen a lot, but every once in a while I'll get asked out my a woman who is at best an acquaintance. It's rare but I've been flat out asked out by female strangers. I have a bad level of honesty as well to the point I have even self sabotaged potential relationships by criticizing and lets just say not marketing myself well. Yet some of these women still want to pursuit me even after all of that. My only good flaw is that I have hard work ethic. That's it and most of these women don't know that. So I just don't know what they see in me. Some are below attractive and some are so incredibly attractive and due to my stupid low confidence and honest nature I tell them they can do better than me. Because I know they can. It takes along time for me to open up and show my uncommon funny side that you people get to see but only cause we are on the internet.

I absolutely would; because I got bullied a lot back in middle school and high school. In middle school it was more physical, while in highschool it was more verbal. I was nerdy and geeky (still am) so I was deemed as being uncool by the majority low IQ Latino/Mestizo school demographics (whom mostly dropped out), and thus, was worthy of bullying.

I was also out of shape, weak, short (still am), had very low self-esteem and confidence, and didn't know how to fight. Of course, the bullies were mostly male, and I felt that they did so sometimes out of spite due to girls flirting with me. Me being bullied turned girls off, and as a result, they quickly lost interest in me once they witnessed it. It was a kind of social proof that they didn't want to be seen with someone uncool and bullied a lot.

Nowadays, I'm super strong, practice half a dozen martial arts, am in the Army Infantry, and have accomplished a ton since then, so I have sky high confidence. I've gone through a complete transformation since then, and it wouldn't and hasn't happened nowadays.