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Met a guy we became close friends and confidants, we were open with almost everything he had a girlfriend I had a boyfriend and as a result we remained just friends for 3 of his relationships

We were friends for 3 years before we started dating.. we’ve been together 2 years now and in my head everything has been perfect and that’s what scared me

Together for 2 years and we’ve had no fights or real arguments we get along extremely well so I’ve had no idea what he’s like during argument-day
He’s the quiet responsible type who doesn’t really have a social life outside of our relationship

He got a job in another state and we’ve agreed he’d work there 1 year. Even being far away we were in constant contact, he always sent me money and we took trips together when he got time off

A female facebooked me telling me they’ve been in a relationship in that state since he went there and she had no idea about me

After being caught he’s been apologizing since and trying to make it up to me saying it was the pressure and distance, bear in mind I’m giving him such a hard time but I always need my questions answered to understand why

Besides the cheating i never felt neglected while he was there I’m so torn and don’t know what to do

Since the day the woman messaged me she hasn’t done so anymore. She approached me saying “OUR boyfriend is a cheater” and she seems hurt that he wants to make it work with me and not her. He says he’s completely cut contact with her and I believe it because I believe she would come and tell me as she seems to want to be in competition with me

Should I give him another chance or is he going to do it again? He says he will be coming home for good when he is able to travel again.

I was unfortunate enough to be cheated on recently by my husband. He had sex repeatedly with a woman who was having a cold sore outbreak. He thought cold sores were just sores from having a cold. His affair managed to infect me with the cold sore virus on my privates, and it was VERY unpleasant.

In my research, I have learned that around 60-80% of people in the world (and in the United States) have the cold sore virus even if they do not know it. 20% of people have the better known genital herpes virus, and almost 50% will have that strain by the time they are 50 years old. It's one of the top causes of virus related blindness in the U. S. Most people catch it while they are still babies and sticking everything in their mouths and sharing toys and food.

With so many people infected, I find it strange that I am only hearing all of this after being infected. How can something so common be such a secret? How many people suffer with on or more of these issues? Honestly, I'm very scared. I know I'm not the only one. Please, share information and your personal experiences so people like me can better understand.