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I met and fell in love with a fellow gager. As our relationship was progressing he fell chronically ill and died. He had a friend that he gave his password for his computer to (it was the same one for his gag account) and my number to contact me since he was in the hospital. Said person has been very difficult to deal with but I have been as kind as I could to her. She asked me once where we met, I said online, she asked what site and I told her. Not thinking that she would go onto his computer, type in the website and log into it. Also at the time I did not know she had even his computer or his password.

I told her then that it is wrong to go into his account since he was a very private person. She agreed, however because she is jealous of our relationship (she openly told me that many times) she has resorted to coming onto his account. She claimed she was logging in to see how I was doing. I told her that was a fucked up excuse to go and read his private account, since I told her via whatsapp that I'm good. He told me that his gag stuff nobody IRL knows of. He was a private person, even with her he was reserved.

She has also been the one who when he died in April, did not tell me he died, but rather in May told me that he would come back in September because I kept asking for him. I tried many times to get his family's contacts so that when he was carried to his home country I could still get messages to him. She never gave it to me. Again keep in mind that she KNEW how close we were to each other. She was cold with me from the start and so I realized along the way that she had liked him. She constantly asked me about his private business, even being so bold-faced as to beg me to see our private conversations.

Am I blowing this out of proportion? Is there anything I can do? Can gag leave his account active so that I can still read our old posts, but change the password or something? PLEASE advise me. I asked this ANON so she would not see it in my feed.