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I’m frustrated. He dumped me nearly 2 years ago because he thought that I was too young and immature for him. We decided to not block each other on social media, lol. He reached out a few times to make small talk through the years, but nothing further. Mainly just replying to my posts and stuff. Today he reached out to me via iMessage saying “hey (my name), how are you doing?” We had small talk but then he asked me out, “yeah I was wondering if you wanted to catch up sometime? Maybe we can take a walk, or grab some coffee? I totally get it if you don’t want to see me.” We dated for a few months, but it wasn’t serious. I was really hurt when he dumped me. I longed for the day he would send this type of message... but why 2 years later? I want to give him a second chance, but I also want to spare myself some dignity. He had his chance, should I give him another? Would you if you were in my position?
thanks!

This guy and I have a very toxic relationship.
Same age. He treated me horribly/used me and in return I got hurt. Misunderstandings and miscommunications.

We separated for a good 7-8 months. He kept hovering over my social media during that time even though we didn’t follow each other. It was toxic to the point where other people were in our business. I ended up blocking those people but I gave him a second chance. With this second chance I told him I value honesty and safe sex. He said he wanted to respect me and didn’t want me for just purely sex. However, after he left he stopped messaging/texting me as much. He went against our plan for meeting each other. My intuition told me to check something. 2 days later I found out one of the condoms was broken. When I asked him about it he said he knew but it broke when he took it off. I asked if he knew where the sperm went. He called me weird and stopped talking to me for 2-3 weeks. No communication at all. I went to get tested. He lied and I got infected. Nothing too serious that is life or death so far. After 2-3 weeks he ghosted me he comes back and asks if I’m doing anything. At this point I feel completely disrespected and that he’s blind to what he does. Do I tell him I’m not a suitable partner and wish him well? Or do I just completely ignore him?