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I am almost 25 and have no dating experience. I hear feedback either along the lines of being too picky or just having bad luck. Everyone says love finds you, so why hasn’t it found me? Don’t say that I’m still young because there are women who marry their high school sweetheart and stay together indefinitely.

I was chunky in my teens and have lost a good amount of weight, almost 80 lbs. I have maintained it for a year and do my best to look good. Yet, I’m never approached by guys. I don’t think I’m ugly and have been complimented throughout my life a few times. I feel like I’m doing wrong or men don’t find me attractive. Must I say, dating apps do not work for me.

I know a lot of men use it for sex but I hear a lot of relationships that have formed from them too. I meet women who dumb their ex boyfriends and these guys were wrapped around their fingers. I wish I had the power and control to have a man desire me that way.

When I do attract guys (rare rare occasions), it’s ugly guys. I know I’m no model or beauty queen but are decent looking men repulsed by me too? Oh, I don’t have any friends by the way.

Guys, do you blame girls for being single?
Girls, do you blame guys for being single?

Or do you accept full responsibility for your single status?

Do you think the opposite sex is too picky, manipulative or only wants to hook-up? Or do you take accountability?