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I am very curious if the women here can confirm the following:
I have read a study that says that women are attracted to other qualities in a short-term mate (an One night stand or a short affair) than in a long-term mate:

According to the study it is simply put like this:

- With a long-term mate, the "provider" type is preferred. Therefore, characteristics such as: loving, caring, faithful, purposeful, reliable, fond of children, intelligent, conscientious, ambitious etc. are perceived as attractive. (Rather the type the woman wants to marry but would not choose for an One night stand because she is more emotional and not that much sexually attracted to him)

- With a short-term partner, more "masculine" types are preferred. According to the study, "masculine" for women is, among other things, a relatively high testosterone level, which can be seen in: angular jaws, a more dominant appearance, a deeper voice, a stronger beard growth, a more muscular body, etc. (Most women find this type of man sexually attractive and therefore choose him as their One night stand)


It is interesting to note that these characteristics, which indicate high testosterone levels, are considered as unattractive by women for a long-term relationship, as men with high testosterone levels are more likely to cheat or leave the woman and not be as caring.
As a man, you therefore have to decide whether you would rather be attractive as a short-term mate or as a long-term partner. As far as you can control that at all.
Now my question to women: can you agree to the study? or is it possible to be attractive for both (short and longterm)? Do you personally know men you would consider for both?

BACKGROUND:

Most recently it's Biden being accused of groping (grabbing a womans privates). This is wrong for an employer, intimidating to a woman and could cause emotional trauma for decades... if it happened.

Clinton had sex in the white house (BJ at least) but lied about it to avoid being convicted. That started the ball rolling... towards pathetic and denial of all and sex as a weapon.

Trump said what he said, he's pretty lame with women and likely paid off for affair (s). That's only so bad... not like he was abusing someone.. she participated... he just talked aggressively and adultery. that isn't assault. I know it's awful to some, but those church goers ignored it all and believe he's sent by god

Franken admitted... at least he's the only one with the guts to say what he did, which of what I heard, wasn't that bad and was acting, playing around... that was his life to some extent.

Oh yea, who can forget about Kavanaugh. And Clarence Thomas! Clarence I believe lied... shoulda said the truth, but would be destroyed if he did. That's wrong. Kavanaugh, not sure. People do stupid Sh_1 when young, they forget, they see different, and people make things up, and are sometimes wrong... I've seen it. I've seen people with false perceptions... they exist. I've seen people lie.

I've been groped by women several times and it's either accepted or is out of place. I understand it can be traumatizing to some, but to destroy someone's life for it? nah...

Do you think we should give people some leeway when being judged including from the other political side... relative to the good they've done. One moment or two doesn't define them in totality.