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I love him but I'm not in love with him. I refuse to be more than friends with him because he has some things I consider deal breakers, including that I'm not attracted to him, Im repulsed by him sexually. We are LDR anyway so only talk on the phone now - he moved away and lives in the States now.

But anyways the problem is he makes comments like Im going to come around one day and we will be together, or like ask me when I'm moving to live where he lives, or like make sexual comments or say how he'd caress my hair as I'm falling asleep which kind of creep me out.

He knows I have dealbreakers but it's like he thinks I'll change my mind one day.

Nothing will ever change I will never want to be with him like that but love him to death as friends... Help what should I do?

Is it better for me to stop being friends, or stop talking so much, or keep being friends?

My guy friend and I have been getting really close this summer. We are both in other relationships which makes things complicated and confusing. He's told me he loves me as a friend and that I'm his other favorite person besides ( not after) gf. Lately we've been fb msging for hours on end, sometimes until after 3 am and we both admit we are falling asleep! He's even been online to say good morning! I feel like we already sleep together since I'm always in bed chatting with him. We often talk really late about everything including school, family probs, how he's bored with his gf (!), religion, music, etc. He sends me videos, pics of him (clothed) and tons of smileys, winky faces, a red heart once and one time a Snoopy kiss but he teased that was for his gf instead.

He makes me crazy bc he jokes about how we talk like we are a couple but that would be ridiculous. What am I supposed to say there? He calls me gurl, honey and woman and Recently we had a fight bc I found out he was talking to gf on the phone while message with me. I know that was dumb of me but I had stayed up late to talk to him. Later he explained that he was fine with me doing other stuff while we talk and he felt special if I take time to stop and talk. He's stayed home from parties to message me and told me he ran past my house at 5 am and wanted to ring the bell, so I seem to be on his mind a lot?
He went camping with gf this w/e and made a point to tell me there would be no sex bc she had her period. Then we talked about pd sex and he asked if I liked it. He's also told me where his condoms are. (FYI?)

Don't judge please or say that he is a bad bf. I am not looking to be his gf. We are going away to college next year so I just want to see where this goes for now.

He asked what I was going to do w/o him all w/e and called himself "your" his name. He has fake broken up with gf 2x this summer but she won't accept it. He msgs me ASAP when he's back w/no word about gf or trip. Help!