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Search Results: feelings of abandonment
To all the independant girls, how do you deal with a relationship?
Ok, so I'm naturally insecure in a relationship. Not that I have abandonment issues, but I need to hear from my boyfriend daily or else I feel uncared for and neglected. I realized I have ground to break as far being...
Anonymous
(30-35) Trouble with a boyfriend and an admirer/friend.
About the same time I met my boyfriend I also developed an aquaintence. The first time I met this aquaintence we flirted for an be or two. At which time we got to know each other really well. We share the same unusual...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is there something wrong with me if I've never had a boyfriend?
I don't have close friends neither or a social circle, just acquaintance. No guy has ever been interested in me or asked me out even as "just friend". I'm 24 by the way. Because of this I have been struggling with...
Anonymous
(36-45) What to do when you have trust and abandonment issues?
So it seems like I suffer from those. I've never been to a therapist so I can't tell for sure. I've been struggling with depression for a while, which stems mostly from the fact that I have no social life and feel unable...
Anonymous
(36-45) How could someone be so heartless?
Today I met my ex at school. We have a month left before we graduate from our school and start finding jobs. We been together for 6 months. I felt as if it was the best 6 months that I ever had. She also told me I was...
gotexans12
Xper 5 Age: 40 When is it too late to say I love you?
It has been 7 months in my relationship with my boyfriend and nobody has said "I love you" yet. We both show those feelings with our actions. I am just too scared to say it because I have vulnerability and abandonment...
Anonymous
(30-35) When do I, if ever I do, bring up my severe anxiety with my boyfriend.
I have really bad anxiety and a fear of abandonment. Growing up, I was teased a lot, and at some point, I learned to distrust others and turn all my emotions and thoughts inwards as a means of self protection. I analyze...
Anonymous
(36-45) My roommate made fun of me for not having any friends. Will someone give me soothing words of encouragement?
That was a low blow, right into the solar plexus. Its one of the few things that really offend me and gets me choked up. Probably because its true, but do you think I am being too senstive? I have abandonment issues so...
Anonymous
(36-45) Dealing with feelings of jealousy/hurt/abandonment
I'll make this simple. So I'm having a great day, hanging with my girlfriend and all of the sudden she does something that triggers jealousy/hurt within me...(like interacting with another guy, even though its completely...
lunchbox22
Xper 6 Age: 37 Whats going on in this gals head
okay sooooo... long story coming. I met this lady in June of last year, and we started dating. Dated for bout a month and she broke it off. I didn't expect to ever hear again, but 2 weeks later she txt'd asking if we...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to combat loneliness?
I don't have any friends, my family doesn't have a strong presence in my life (they're busy living their own lives), and I don't have a boyfriend, and have never had one. I'm naturally a shy and introverted person and I...
Anonymous
(36-45) I'm starting to wonder if I have abandonment issues?
Well more like neglect. I might be borderline stealing Dr Drew's job when it comes to analyzing my mental stability but hear me out. History time: When I was in 7th grade my dad started an affair with this woman which...
Anonymous
(30-35) Oh hey there abandonment, how's it going? No, go away heartbreak, AWAY I said!?
I was in a relationship with this guy for 4.5 months (we're both 18). We had some really good times but more often than I should have, I got upset by his decrease in effort and his sexual pressure though I wasn't ready to...
LollyPopsicle
Xper 5 Age: 31 How do I accept the break up and what I have done?
I recently met a man who for the first time in my life I believed could have been "the one". I am 27 years old, I have a history of destroying relationships due to insecurity, abandonment issues and then it inevitably...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is there an experience from your past that really gets to you when people in your future repeat it?
For example, a cheater. Say someone gave their all to someone they really loved and they cheated on them. Now in their future, they will not deal with cheaters. Cheating is that one thing that makes them emotionally...
Anonymous
(30-35) I'm homophobic, can someone please help me fix this?
I never used to be this way. I've always adopted an open concept with sexuality. People living lifestyles that reflect their personal preferences aren't a threatening concept to me. It's only from an instance where I feel...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to get over abandonment issues? Any advice appreciated :)
I've been struggling with this for a while. I finally came to realize that I have huge abandonment issues which prevent me from having a normal social life and normal emotional reactions To put things very simply, I had...
Anonymous
(36-45) What is your definition of abandonment?
I had a very close friend recently who I shared a quasi relationship with (it was pretty complicated). The gist of it was this - he failed to consider my feelings most of the time. He knew specific actions bothered me...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Is forgiveness always the right path?
Okay long story. I have feelings for this girl, Ray. Ray and I had a thing. She was dating this other guy but said she wanted to be with me. She left him when her ex husband came back to her (never got officially...
sage-of-caring
Xper 7 Age: 37 10 Signs That Your Relationship Will Not Last
I see it happen over and over again, like a train wreck that could have been stopped. A friend of mine will start seeing a guy who seems promising. They'll go on a couple dates which go well, but in no time, she'll start...
relationshipDNA
Xper 6 Age: 45 