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This older man (I'm 20, he's 60) emailed me saying he was interested in doing large scale business with me (I'm a small business owner). It was a great opportunity for me. He invited me formally through his organization and said his company would pay all travel and hotel expenses because they were really interested in my work. He also sent me an itinerary that included dinner and a tour. I did my research on him and he was legit. Since he was a married man with kids older than me, I asked to meet his family when I arrived. When he introduced me to them, it made me feel a little better since I would be touring with him.

He fed me a lot of bull about his family saying they didn't treat him right, etc. He also told me not to tell them about the dinner and tour because he claimed his wife didn't like him doing business dealings with other women. I figured it was his private matter so I didn't say anything to his wife. I also trusted he was so much older and had daughters of his own so he didn't see me in a sexual manner. He also kept emphasizing how much he liked helping young people like me because we were the answer to a better economy, etc.

Well, long story short, his wife and daughters ended up calling me after I left for home and started calling me all sorts of names. According to them, he loved and wanted to marry me. He also claimed he had made out with me even though nothing like that happened. His wife claims I broke their home. She and her daughters have been calling me multiple times everyday and have screamed all sorts of nasty things at me. That being said, they do admit that this is not his first time talking to other women. Why does the "other woman" always get blamed when a man cheats on their significant other? I didn't even have any bad intentions or pull any moves on him. He was the one who invited me. He was the one who lied to me and his family. He was the one with bad intentions.

Who do you think is to blame in this situation?

Long story short. I had a high school sweet heart who I was with for 2.5 years. we always talked about getting married and he told me I was the love of his life. Eventually, he got tired of being in a relationship and broke up with me. He admitted he had cheated on me twice but kept it a secret for a month. after the break up, he told me we were still going to get married and that he was always going to love me. we continued seeing each other for a while and he always treated me as if we were dating, but then admitted he had been using me for sex. he then told me that he had been cheating on his other girlfriend with me and that I should get out of his life because he loved her and not me. he blocked me on all social media and I didn't hear from him until recently he sent me a message asking how I was and telling me how sorry he was for everything he had done and that he took me for granted and that he was never able to find another girl like me. he says he has changed and has left his partying days behind and wants to settle down. should i give him another chance? I never stopped loving him, and he was a great boyfriend before he wanted to party and be single...