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My boyfriend and I both used to have snapchat. He had friends on there, and so did I. He had a few girls and one of the girls he also had as a contact in his phone. He had gotten her snapchat and number way back when he was with his ex. I did a little Facebook stalking on her profile and saw a post she made over a year ago. Actually it was back in February 2015. She said something about it being cold out and my boyfriend (I didn't know him at that time, we met actually a few days after this) had commented something. She didn't reply. I asked him before if he liked her or thought she was pretty. He said no. And he only texted her once to see where a party was and he snapchatted her a few times. Do I let it go? I would ask him about it but I know he will get pissed because we already talked about it like 3 times and said they were friends. Thoughts?

I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19. We have been dating for 3 months and are in a long distance relationship but see each other at least once every month. March 9th will make 4. He keeps in contact with his exes and it bothers me. He even said that if she needed help, he would tend to her. Recently we had a dispute over him going to another County to help a "friend" of his out. She's a girl and he says that they've never dated. I don't believe that. He even said that they made a promise years ago that if they were not married by a certain age, they would marry each other. She's pretty much been around since the beginning of our relationship and still is. I never knew about her until the argument we had over him going to "help" her. She locked her keys in her car but yet she has a boyfriend. Why couldn't her boyfriend help her? He even went as far as calling her his Plan B! He said he loves her as a plan b. I don't know wtf that means! I feel he doesn't care about our relationship as much as he says he does. Is there something he's hiding or not telling me? I feel like I know an my gut is telling me he's not worth it but my mind wants to wait it out. We even say I love you but at times I question him about it. He's also having a party on the 20th and his ex is attending. I will not be there. Please help