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Sorry this is long. Basically he messaged me on Okcupid, says that I’m really beautiful, we’re in each other’s age range (I’m 36, he’s 41 and says he wants a girl my age) and supposedly I have everything he was looking for in a woman. The problem was I really wasn’t feeling any interest for him after reading his profile, and he lived to far away from me (I’m on Long Island, he’s in NYC and kinda want someone who is also on the island that I don’t have to commute to date). I sent him a polite message (that’s very sweet of you but I don’t think we’d be a good match). He sends me two long paragraphs in return saying he doesn’t understand, that I should give him a chance, that I might change my mind once I get to know him, that I’m already 36 and not going to get many more chances then begs me to reconsider because he wants to leave the city and saw getting involved with someone like me as the perfect escape from New York, that he wanted us to pick out our future hometown together and said that he was really shocked because I sounded so nice in my profile. I apologized again, told him not to send me anymore messages and blocked him. So tonight (about three weeks later), I get another message from him (from another account he created) telling me he still really wants to get to know me, he still wants me to get to know him then gives me his phone number and begs me to call him because we’re both on that site looking for partners and he could be the “perfect partner for me but I don’t know it because I’m not giving him a chance”. I told him to stop messaging me and leave me alone. I was with two friends when I got this message. One told me that I did the right thing because he sounded really desperate and the other friend told me that I’m not getting any younger (which I’m not) and he sounds really interested. She says I should overlook the differences and the distance and date him, so now I’m feeling really bad. What do you all think?

If you thought that talking about music a lot was a bad habit of mine 😂 ... yea apparently I love to talk about myself. Like i’ll let you have the floor BUT when you ask me something about myself 🙃 you won't be getting the mic back for a while. I know i talk too much and i have a hard time stopping myself. Occasionally i’ll ask something about you in return but its probably just me using it as a breather or a reason to talk about how i relate to whatever I asked you about. I know... i’m bad lol. But at the same time i want to date someone who can also hold a convo. HOWEVER i need for them to be a tad bit more of a listener than a talker so that we balance eachother out without annoying one another :) i mean i’ve dated talkers before and lordy we were fighting for the floor. We kept cutting eachother off and it was pissing me off. I would purposely dodge one friends call cause he talked too much 😂 I felt claustrophobic af cause he’d never let me get a word in and he’d yap for like 2 hours straight. I’d mute the phone and cuss and cry 🤣 One of my friends told ne that i was only allowed to call her if i didn't talk about myself for that whole convo... yea we didn't say friends much longer after. But hey its her fault for always saying “I have nothing to talk about, tell me about your day” (hehe greenlight!). Me writing this is just a summary Of how much i talk haha. Anyways, what about you?
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